Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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-So in this scenario are you expecting this "someone else" to pay & try to put in effort so you enjoy yourself? Or are you just going out to eat with each other & paying for yourselves?

I never expect anyone to pay for me, yet also never experienced a man being unwilling to pay. Even if he pays, sex shouldn’t be an expectation.
 

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He’s feeding into sexual entitlement culture the mentally ill dudes who follow him already have.

Dates do not automatically equal sex. Anymore than sex equals love.
If u don’t want to spend money on somebody, then don’t.

But pushing this expectation that a woman should fukk you just for dinner and then turning around and being super conservative about women being hoe this and too hypersexual that…

You know what. Nevermind. :mjlol:

When you handsomegang you don't even have to ask for sex:mjgrin::sas2:
 

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Very dangerous rhetoric.
He’s feeding into sexual entitlement culture the mentally ill dudes who follow him already have.

Dates do not automatically equal sex. Anymore than sex equals love.
If u don’t want to spend money on somebody, then don’t.

But pushing this expectation that a woman should fukk you just for dinner and then turning around and being super conservative about women being hoe this and too hypersexual that

You know what. Nevermind. :mjlol:

These are the same people who call themselves "pro-black" :mjlol:

What "pro-black" Black Man looking to build anything tangible and longstanding with a black woman wants a woman to sleep with him after just a first date simply because he took her out to dinner? :mjlol:

Any woman who does that has no principles and is "fair game" for everyone :mjlol:
 

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I never expect anyone to pay for me, yet also never experienced a man being unwilling to pay. Even if he pays, sex shouldn’t be an expectation.
-The way I read it was you were just going out to eat with someone casually. I was just trying to clarify if that was right or if you were referring to an actual "date" with the man paying.
 

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He’s feeding into sexual entitlement culture the mentally ill dudes who follow him already have.

Dates do not automatically equal sex. Anymore than sex equals love.
If u don’t want to spend money on somebody, then don’t.

But pushing this expectation that a woman should fukk you just for dinner and then turning around and being super conservative about women being hoe this and too hypersexual that…

You know what. Nevermind. :mjlol:
Reading this kind of blew my mind. For some reason that sphere creates this mentality where its like all this finesse and game has to be run to secure the date then when they get the date there is only two options left.

Either I'm about to have sex or this chick is a prude/wasting my time/wasting my money. Ironically no one wins because if you do have sex she immediately turns into a hoe anyway and if you don't, then you're a failure for getting caught up and spending money without sex. You have to eat the blow to your self esteem and run back to that sphere for advice and lick your wounds. Its like an infinite loop at that point

If any of that programming exists in my mind I want it gone immediately :francis:
 

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I don't agree w/ this but I think people forget sometimes Kev is like 50 fukking years old because this is 100% the shyt I heard from oldheads, both men and women, growing up :yeshrug:
And not even that it's an option. It's an expectation. Otherwise go on a date in the middle of the day if you not trying to fukk.
 

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He’s feeding into sexual entitlement culture the mentally ill dudes who follow him already have.

Dates do not automatically equal sex. Anymore than sex equals love.
If u don’t want to spend money on somebody, then don’t.

But pushing this expectation that a woman should fukk you just for dinner and then turning around and being super conservative about women being hoe this and too hypersexual that…

You know what. Nevermind. :mjlol:
yall reading too into it

TLDR: its wrong for women to lead men on and use them for money/dates

He's saying that if you go on a night date with a man there is an expectation of romance somewhere down the line.

If the woman knows she is in no way interested in him like that (and never will) she shouldnt be going on dates with him
 

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yall reading too into it

TLDR: its wrong for women to lead men on and use them for money/dates

He's saying that if you go on a night date with a man there is an expectation of romance somewhere down the line.

If the woman knows she is in no way interested in him like that (and never will) she shouldnt be going on dates with him
Nah. There are literallly dudes who push an entire culture around p*ssy entitlement and this type of shyt legitimizes it. Who says a woman is no way interested in a man just because she is hanging out with a guy at night and unwilling to fukk?:snoop:
These white/black autistic hot takes completely ignore nuances in normal human interactions and have a LOTTA people fukked up. But ya’ll got it.:hubie:
 
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