Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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:yeshrug:This is a natural reaction to the spate of 'dating for free food' stories. The transactional nature of modern relationships has thus far been one sided. Kevin is simply forcing them to say the quiet part out loud.

The reactions are funny to me tho, I will say, cuz the rule used to be, you went on lunch dates with men you wasnt really feeling like that, evening dates- more expensive- were reserved for those you actually might fukk. He's repeating back to women the guidelines they themselves had set and everybody mad. :skip:
It's because too many women agree to dates of guys they don't want to date. That used to not be the case
 

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He’s feeding into sexual entitlement culture the mentally ill dudes who follow him already have.

Dates do not automatically equal sex. Anymore than sex equals love.
If u don’t want to spend money on somebody, then don’t.

But pushing this expectation that a woman should fukk you just for dinner and then turning around and being super conservative about women being hoe this and too hypersexual that…

You know what. Nevermind. :mjlol:
He's leading these brehs to the slaughter with his rhetoric.
 

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Doesn't make sense logically and creates a dangerous sense of entitlement.

I don't know about most people but I work 5 days a week. If I really needed to schedule a day during the day, I could but there is always the risk of last minute meetings, requests, queries etc.

I would plan my dates after 5pm, when we both finish work. My expectation was never to have sex or even kiss on the first date. First date is about getting to know one another.
Yeah I've commented on it before. But I think it's due to social media but the level of entitlement that both men and women have is crazy and only getting worse. But I've never been on a date expecting sex. I go out expecting company and good conversation and what happens afterwards is up to us. But I've never been to pressed about getting sex either which is probably why I end up having alot of sex:yeshrug:
 
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fukk around and catch a sexual assault charge following the advice of a YouTube homosexual if you want to.
I can't believe grown ass straight men have a fakkit for their OG and as their guru.

By telling a woman if we’re not having sex I’m not taking you on a date? There is zero sexual assault involved there. Calm down sparky.
 

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What?! :mjcry:

Sorry about yalls lost. It’s tough losing a pet. My prayers go out to you and yours.

Also, congratulations to the two of you on your anniversary! 21 years is a long time, and it’s great seeing you still have that spark for that man, and do what you have to do to make it last. May the 2 of you continue on. Y’all are an inspiration to those of us wanting companionship and that everlasting partner!
We're true best friends. I generally don't care about nikkas (no disrespect, I'm just not that emotional type female), but I would literally walk through fire for him, and he'd do the same. We built loyal tho (astrology has been sooooo helpful).

Thanks breh.

To give a little eulogy, he looked like a fluffy little teddy bear (I should post a pic, I'm fukking up), but this was his permanent face: :birdman:. He did not come here to play. He ain't want no snuggles, except under his very specific parameters (incl home grooming, he hated water) .This nikka held me down walking back and forth to see my mother on lenox ave at 1 am. The whole hood loved him bc he used to run tf down, big dog, didnt matter. If somebody got too close to me, he'd start his low growl and escalate.

The grief is selfishness. We're being selfish bc he shoulda been passed. As a yorkie, he was alloted approx 13 yrs, but being that he was half Lhasa apso, he lived to damn near 17. :dwillhuh:We were blessed. He stayed with us (well past his yorkie death date) and helped us deal with a house where both my mil and nana in law passed.

We still looking for him around the house, in the yard, and behind the car. :to:
 

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Damn, some Mfs don’t even get off work until 5. Lol so it’s ok to eat dinner sexless, by yourself after 5pm, but with someone else you have to be prepared to give it up.
Men will stress you out if you let them.
-So in this scenario are you expecting this "someone else" to pay & try to put in effort so you enjoy yourself? Or are you just going out to eat with each other & paying for yourselves?
 
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