Talking to the dude from Detroit - my family culture has always been move for the job or career. We knew we'd make time to see each other.
I'm glad I moved to enhance my career and build my life. No regrets making the decision.
Some men are won't take that risk but they should.
LOL at him trashing Phllly and Detroit. I'd agree - Houston, Atlanta, Charlotte if he wants Black women in a major metropolitan industry.
Maybe DC but you'd have to be in the upper crust.
Black men gotta be selfish. Live for your own. Sometimes your fam can hinder you.