I don't have an issue with Interracial Dating but I'm not a fan of it being used as a threat. Furthermore mature black men who do decide to date out don't really need to be encouraged to. They've come to the conclusion that after years of interacting with their race and others the woman they've found (not necessarily the race) is the best option for them. I don't think its going to set an alarm for black women, rather 20% on the fence will step their game up and the other 80% will use it as excuse to not get fit, continue to be a "Independent Boss Chick", etc. Honestly, it may be better to say nothing at all, thats just my opinion though. I get good looking black women who ask questions in a roundabout way if I date white women because I don't fit in their box.
I know Kevin aims his talking points at HENRYS/HVM but lets not pretend the average guy listening is probably earning 20k-40k, or living with their mother/roommates. We already have enough of those guys making white women single mothers like they do in their own community. I look at this with the endgame in mind. Since were talking about attractive, 7+ FBI non-black women, they've probably gone to college, come from a solid middle-class family, and have a semi-traditional family, which mean you have to deal with this guy --->
Most are definitely NOT ready to be vetted by their white father and they are not going to hand off their daughter to a black man without tangibles on the table and a real gameplan. It's only a shame we don't have more fathers in the household in our community and sisters have to rely on uncles and brothers.
I have only dated black women and that's my preference, may open it up later on, not sure. The guilt portion was accurate because despite the issues I've had mostly positive experiences with BW throughout my life. I've noticed over the past year non-black women have been a more receptive to me though.
I know Kevin aims his talking points at HENRYS/HVM but lets not pretend the average guy listening is probably earning 20k-40k, or living with their mother/roommates. We already have enough of those guys making white women single mothers like they do in their own community. I look at this with the endgame in mind. Since were talking about attractive, 7+ FBI non-black women, they've probably gone to college, come from a solid middle-class family, and have a semi-traditional family, which mean you have to deal with this guy --->
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I have only dated black women and that's my preference, may open it up later on, not sure. The guilt portion was accurate because despite the issues I've had mostly positive experiences with BW throughout my life. I've noticed over the past year non-black women have been a more receptive to me though.