Dope post. I agree with it all.
A couple of my college bros and I are actually heading out to Croatia in July for Yacht Week. I can’t wait. Got a whole world to see.
yup. Its not about chasing other women, its more so getting outside of America, and being around people with real issues and seeing there are still sane people in this world, and the stuff we are going through in America when it comes to relationships is some first world nonsense. It will show you that their are bigger things in life thus its not worth engaging in the nonsense.
Also another thing is we as men jump into relationships when we should be focus on building ourselves. Notice alot of men a man shouldn't get serious about relationships until 35 (where he has some stability and could take the risk needed without worrying about disrupting other lives). Anything before 35 is some play play stuff UNLESS you find the RARE woman who wants to do 50/50 and build with you (all women say they want to do it in theory but aint bout that life, hence once they all hit 30 they want to become housewives), and that assumes you want to do the 50/50 thing (it aint for me).
My thing to tell you is focus on ya health, get in the best shape possible, pay off any debt you have, get your savings healthy (before a woman, so that money is yours), and then worry about relationships, and imo only get into LTR if marriage is your goal (lotta dudes dont even want marriage and just go with the flow forever and next thing they know they been in a 5 year relationship with no real end goal).