Most grown Black men are childlike, breh.
No one respects the Black man.
The world admires our ability to rap, sing, play sports, etc.
But, when it comes to the real shyt in life, no one really believes we have the capability to consistently perform at a high level.
As much as Kevin holds up a mirror to Black women, we need someone who does the same for Black men in good faith. Because, as I get older and look around, there are very few Black men who are serious about making moves.
At the macro level there are a lot of legacy reasons for this.
How the world views black men shouldn't let anyone steer away from their objectives.
It's every man for himself and those with the skills, resources and wherewithal will achieve what they want and politic as they see fit.
There is no "we" for someone to hold a mirror to. "We" aren't a monolith ...no matter what your anecdotal experience is.