tell em. I love dark skinned women prolly more than i do light skinned women and am a light skinned man! man on some shyt, I know for a fact that i've hit more chocolate women than light skinned women. am just tired of these scorned bytches and nikkas trying to force this nut ass narrative dog, shyt is wack. like you said, if you bad, you bad. complexion dont mean shyt.
No bytch, No.
Oh yes, indeed!
I'm attracted to the whole color spectrum, but my attraction to dark skinned chicks is just a lil more profound.
Ever since I was a kid and saw Aunt Viv hit that fierce dance routine
That chocolate fever hit me like the holy ghost.
Even before then, but I was on the brink of puberty when I saw Aunt Viv rocking them tights
I didn't say that, I guess many would consider my wife a redbone, but her skin color never factored into why I asked her to marry me.
Look, I grew up in south Louisiana and live in New Orleans, so maybe that's why I don't really get the big deal over light skin chicks, to most dudes down here females are females regardless of skin color.
I didn't say you did I was referencing Toree Hart. What would be your response if somebody suggested that the only reason you were with your wife was because of her skin tone?
Does Kevin Hart's skintone play a part in the scrutiny? If he was a Drake or Chris Brown colored black man, would people point out the color of his black woman?
tell them they dont kow what theyre talking about...
but with women like toree hart....her mind is already made up...and she obviously has an agenda...she feels some kind of way about kevin moving on and being successful at it....i know that burns her up.......so ofcourse she'll say anything to make him look bad....
listen to scorned women brehs
I think it's less to do with "black men" and more to do with black people in general: in many ways we are conditioned to prefer lighter skin. Western beauty standards dominate, and you see this in black men and women. From talk of "good hair" to the casual self hate we participate in with respect to automatically labeling any light skin person "pretty."
This is less of an issue with dark black men IMO. The "tall dark and handsome" trope applies to us, and there are plenty of cases of dark dudes getting love (Idris Elba for instance). A dark black man is less likely to have self esteem issues, although obviously that does not mean that "light skin men=pretty" sentiments don't exist.
Whereas dark black women have a far worse time. From childhood they have to deal with people saying ignorant shyt about their color, or praising the beauty of lighter friends, and the lack of dark role models on television/media. Imagine the mental turmoil of that shyt brehs. It's disgusting and I'm tired of seeing black people denigrate our darker sisters as if they're inferior. Stop that shyt. Now.
I didn't say you did I was referencing Toree Hart. What would be your response if somebody suggested that the only reason you were with your wife was because of her skin tone?
Give me a Fat Ass Dominican Chick and I'll throw both of them Thots in the bushes.
Nyggas like what they like. Stop using preference to validate why someone is keeping you down.
In general I see people like the opposite of themselves. A lot of light skin chicks ... love 'Dark chocolate dudes' ... a lot of dark dudes like white chicks. and a lot of ppl in the middle dont care and like the same.
its about preference. most black women though seem to have this 'we're in this together shyt ...u need to hold me down cuz I look like ushyt' ... fukk outta here. if a nygga dream was always to have a light skin bad spanish chick ... if u the dark butt he was wit for a few years ... if he makes it and he now has a choice and he LEAVES U.. it means he just didn't love u ... and had he have his original choice ... he wouldn't have picked u ... he simply settled with you ... ur not what he wanted.
The sad thing is that females rather know that they have a man who settled with them .. that one who goal / dream girl / preference as actually them.
Its like a asian chick dating a dude knowing the dude really really like black chicks .... and then when he finally get one and leaves .. she gets mad. you knew this all along.
Its not a symbol of White supremacy. Most men like light-skinned women because of their fukking skin colour. Eurocentric beauty standards are the reason behind that. Its not that difficult of a concept to grasp. Its really not. These nikkas will argue tooth and nail that there's another reason behind it. There isn't.
Black women do need to take your advice......and we need to apply it to ourselves.
Are you in the right thread or being childish during an interesting conversation? @GiGi