Well, they stayed together and made it work
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Tony is (at least decades ago) a good guy from what I heard. Interesting that Kamala doesn't use him more to play up any ADOS/FBA connection since his family is from the Deep South though he grew up in the Bay. He is the only constant Black family influence their family ever had besides Meena's mixed partner. He also officially adopted Meena and his IG handle is meenasdad.
What a lot of people don't know is Maya rose through politics behind the curtain in ways as fast or faster than Kamala. She started in corporate law but then did ngo/political stuff ending up at the Ford Foundation in a senior role and later a senior policy advisor to Hillary Clinton during her 2016 campaign while Kamala was still California AG.
If Hillary had won, she would have worked in the White House before Kamala though likely in an advisor or staff role. That experience is maybe why Kamala asked her to run her 2020 campaign.
If Kamala won it would be nuts if her or Tony got a cabinet position on some Robert Kennedy shyt.