5 pages deep and you nikkas still ain't figured this out. The reason why nikkas ain't on Mary J is cuz she was never really promoted as a sex symbol. Look they can take any celebrity and if they promote them as sexual then all motherfukkers give into the hype and roll with it.
White people do this all the time with their celebs its the same reasons nikkas debate if they would smash Lady Gaga. She's a subpar looking white girl but if you slap enuff make up on her and put her ass in some skin tight clothing then all of a sudden she's fukkable. You take a cross eyed ugly nikka like Biggie and if he raps about being sexy and is promoted as such then random bytches, who would have never fukked him otherwise, are gonna wanna fukk him.
The reason you never wanted to fukk Mary J is because her label never wanted to promote her as someone you would wanna fukk. Keep in mind she came out during a time when R&B was about talented vocalist so her sex appeal didn't have to be over hyped to keep your attention unlike today where if you look sexy, have your ass hanging out and can't hold a note you can still be a star.