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nikka now you just making shyt up African American women are the most loyal group of women in the black race, matter of fact the planet. Just look at the stats, African women will Bedwench under a cac in a minute. You can get on with that mess. Everybody knows most of the black girls with white boys over here are from Caribbean first, Africans, second, and African American Queens dead last. Our women haven't forgot the rapes and lyncings.whatever nikka. The numbers don't prove shyt. 5% of black women marry outside their races. I think you are completely delusional if you think the bulk of that 5% isn't overwhelmingly AA women.. And besides, everyone knows that NYC has the highest amount of West Indian women so it's mostly coming from them or AA. So to prove your point all you did was list celebrities. I really don't care what you say about Caribbean women every knows they date out the most. In the UK and Canada they date out the most, almost half of them.
Anyways, Janet Jackson, Tina Turner, even yall very own Civil Rights actist like Angela Davis, Kylie Blunbery(actress), Logan Browing, etc are all dating or married to cacs. See how easy that was? And don't even get me started on the percentage of Afram men who date out because we'll be here all day.
Just what attracts African women to white men? Is it love or money, or both?
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What is it that African women see in white men? Is it that white men treat them better than African men or have more money? Is it both?
Whatever it is, relationship experts such as Dr Chris Hart think there is a universal tendency for women to have a preference for foreign men.
“It doesn’t matter where you come from.
It happens all over the world. In Uganda, for example, you will hear the local women praise Kenyan men, yet if you asked Kenyan women, they think that their men are terrible…and yet they’re talking about the same men,” Dr Hart says.
There is a belief among Kenyan women that Europeans and Americans treat women better. The secret of the white man, these women believe, is that they are raised to respect women.
TREAT WOMEN WELL
Some of the women we talked to say most white men do not differentiate chores for men and women. White men are said to help with work around the house, pull chairs and open car doors for their women, buy flowers and shower their wives with endearments, attributes that probably make Kenyan women find them attractive.
There is, of course, the money factor. White men are believed to have a lot of it, and because of this, Kenyan girls looking for an easy way out believe the white man is their ticket out of poverty.
“In general, a person who can afford an air ticket is sure to have a certain amount of money. That’s for sure, but does not mean that this person is rich?” Dr Hart asks.
Dr Gidraph Wairire, a sociology lecturer at the University of Nairobi, believes the allure of the white man boils down to Africans’ inferiority complex, which makes African women to believe that white men are better than their African counterparts.
“Owing to colonisation, many black women tend to be submissive to the white race, and this often makes them think that white men are superior to black men.
“This is why many tend to scout for relationships with white men, even online,” Dr Wairire says.
Majority of the white men in relationships with black women have been in previous relationships with white women which failed, hence they want to try out a different avenue, according to the scholar.
“When they meet these girls — women who are very vulnerable because of their perception that white men are more superior — our girls become easy prey,” he says.
Social media has aggravated this fad, making bi-racial relationships only a click away. A big number of bi-racial couples met online, on Facebook and other networking sites, which are their main channels of communication.
LEAD TO MARRIAGE
The Rev Loise Noo, a counselling psychologist, is sceptical about such relationships. “A very low percentage of couples who meet online actually go on to have successful relationships that lead to marriage,” she says.
By the time one goes online to look for a partner, one may be trying to avoid the scrutiny that a face-to-face meeting would allow, says the counsellor, who is also an Anglican Church of Kenya priest.
She thinks that often, those who prefer to meet online want to hide something. “It may be physical imperfections that may not allow them to fit into what society thinks is beautiful or it may be an emotional flaw they are afraid will come out to light too early.”
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