You do have life on easy mode though. In comparison to people from the hood. I mean no disrespect By that either. It's just what it is.
I'm not telling you to feel bad about it, I'm saying that what it is.
I don't think it's that simple. You got kids from the hood that have all the food, toys, and clothes that some kids from the suburbs have. Most of my cousins grew up in rough areas and their life was no different than mine growing up. Obviously, they were closer to crime and bad influences, but they rode the same bikes and played the same Nintendo I played. I spent too much time in the hood growing up and even as an adult dealing with these brauds, to not notice that a lot of these kids aren't really "struggling". Now don't get me wrong, a lot of kids are starving and barely have a roof over their head. I ain't trying to imply that every kid in the projects rocks Jordans and has a PS4, but many of the ones I associated with don't have the same "war stripes" that people are implying comes with growing up in a bad area.
When Biggie's mom called him out on the exaggerated stories of his "desolate" upbringing, that was a prime example of being from a rough area without actually coming from desperation and abject poverty. Whereas with a cat like DMX, you know he came from the absolute gutter.
Now what I will say is that the peer pressure and social hierarchy is different in the hood than other areas. A lot of suburban dudes that went off to college, would have had not taken that same step. My friends and relatives didn't have that same influence that my family put on us. The ones from rough areas that did go to college came either came from a two parent family or had a beast of a mother that did not play games. So I guess the push to succeed is something that may or may not be there if you come from a lower class upbringing.
For reference, I grew up in a decent part of Carol City in a two parent family. So a black suburb with some rough elements but overall not a bad place to grow up, as long as you weren't overly soft.