thats why he asked "what more do you want me to do?" hes not saying it in a condescending way, he legit wants to know cause he doesnt know.I agree. But the truth is, you don’t get credit for doing your job. He felt like him trying the way he was, was enough since “some guys don’t even do that”. But that doesn’t mean what your doing is actually enough for the baby’s needs.
she knows what she was getting into, she knows that he's in a different city. why cant she open her mouth and say what more she needs/wants? i know she cant demand for him to move back since they arent together, but he's trying to communicate to make it work. tell him? do you want to co-parent? one week SF, one week LA? do you want to move to SF? do you want him back in LA? wtf does she want? hes trying to communicate, and communication is the foundation of any relationship.