ThisI grew up in a fatherless house and was just watching Toonami and on the game all day.
Not everyone from a fatherless home is destined for failure
ThisI grew up in a fatherless house and was just watching Toonami and on the game all day.
If we're being honest GOOD stepfathers are doing a big service to the community at large by molding better men. They should be given props to be honest rather than clowned but on the other hand the fact they even need to exist in the first place is an issue. Why is the biological father if alive not being shamed into taking care of his kids? Why is the mother choosing irresponsible men? All this looks based choosing is an issue we don't wanna address...as a kid:"WHY?! PLEASE DONT TELL HIM! I'LL STOP!!"
as a teenager: "whoa lets not get too carried away. i'll clean my room and take the garbage out."
as a grown man: "i think i can take this flabby head. she aint gon say shyt"
As a childless man with a vasectomy I want to add my two cents. You asked why don't we shame absentee biological fathers? That's erroneous because people do talk shyt about black fathers not in their kids lives. Black dads up until fairly recently were always talked about. Now with these male podcasts it's coo to talk shyt about single moms too.If we're being honest GOOD stepfathers are doing a big service to the community at large by molding better men. They should be given props to be honest rather than clowned but on the other hand the fact they even need to exist in the first place is an issue. Why is the biological father if alive not being shamed into taking care of his kids? Why is the mother choosing irresponsible men? All this looks based choosing is an issue we don't wanna address...
These single parent homes are the byproducts of the 94 Crime Bill by Joe Biden and Bill Clinton
That slum ass stripper bytch for white dikk really made that quote in a thread
And yall let this gump ass bytch Cha Cha Slide with no resistance
Ain’t no way yall the men yall say yall are off this internet
Just ain’t no way
Exactly fatherless does not mean no positive male role model. Lot of guys have grandfathers, uncles, brothers, cousins etc. That step up and act as positive influences on how a grown man is supposed to behave. Problem is these fatherless men that have crashout/negative role model uncles, grandfathers, cousins or no role model at all.
Some of these people have never seen a man get up and go to work everyday or talk ahout paying bills and providing for their family. If your uncle is a pimp and your older cousin is a blood and your grandfather was a heroin addict. Statistically speaking how are you supposed to turn out?
But a broke bum but caring father who is around still better than no father cuz he gonna want what's best for his kids and try to get them to where he couldn't go.
As a childless man with a vasectomy I want to add my two cents. You asked why don't we shame absentee biological fathers? That's erroneous because people do talk shyt about black fathers not in their kids lives. Black dads up until fairly recently were always talked about. Now with these male podcasts it's coo to talk shyt about single moms too.
This. Black men have been shamed so much that we’ve become the stereotype for deadbeats despite being the most involved fathers out of every race.
These YouTube shows and podcasts put the spotlight on single mothers and exposed them.
I mean the men in the father's circle. The loud voices are always about the ones who ain't doing shyt so much so that we ignore the dads who are. But that comes when the community isn't allowed to shape shape own narrative. Which is another thread in and of itselfAs a childless man with a vasectomy I want to add my two cents. You asked why don't we shame absentee biological fathers? That's erroneous because people do talk shyt about black fathers not in their kids lives. Black dads up until fairly recently were always talked about. Now with these male podcasts it's coo to talk shyt about single moms too.