Yeah, the no kid life has its benefits in some regard.I'm dangerously close to pulling the trigger but I can't justify spending more than $1000 on this shyt when I got a baby and bills to pay.
I do have assets im willing to part ways with though if I can somehow get a computer with a 4000 series GPU. Quest 2, X1X I'm definitely willing to part with, Series X too if the transition to XBOX on PC is seamless
I'd say you could also buy used, but I'm not sure if you're going to find many 4000 series at great discounts given they are less than a year old. There will probably be 4th of July sales at somes places, so you might get lucky and be able to grab something at a nice discount