Is there a comprehensive list of arguments for not having a child?

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Why do you need a list? Why try to justify anything? If you don't want children, you don't want children. I think parents are superheroes. It takes an insane amount of courage and strength to raise a child. My husband and I are still on the fence about it.
 

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I got a vasectomy. I'm not having kids for a few reasons the biggest being that the child would never experience pain or suffering on any level.
Can yours be reversed? I contemplated getting one during the CoViD lockdown but didnt actually go through with it since It seemed as though the tech for reversal isnt as mature as I thought .
 

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To answer the OP’s question in the title, there is a handbook of arguments.

Once again, if you want the response to every argument posted here from “It’s only natural” to “children to support me” to “I have the money” to “my child will do great things”. Peep the link.


Why would anyone listen to some weird-ass cult of people who hate their lives so much that they want the human race to become extinct? :heh:


Anti-natalists literally want the human race to go extinct. And their argument is that they hate life and assume that any others brought into existence will hate their lives too. Not exactly the sort of people you wantt to take life advice from.
 

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Can yours be reversed? I contemplated getting one during the CoViD lockdown but didnt actually go through with it since It seemed as though the tech for reversal isnt as mature as I thought .
Yeah my Urologist said it could be reversed. He was a cool dude. There's different methods and ways to get your vasectomy procedure done. Mine only took like 12 minutes. It doesn't hurt during the procedure they numb you up. At the end doc prescribed me some percs. I can go into more details in you want
 

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Yeah my Urologist said it could be reversed. He was a cool dude. There's different methods and ways to get your vasectomy procedure done. Mine only took like 12 minutes. It doesn't hurt during the procedure they numb you up. At the end doc prescribed me some percs. I can go into more details in you want
Please do. I dont want kids yet so this is something i am seriously considering if I can safely reverse it when im ready to start a family. i was blessed to come out of my wild 20s unscathed, I dont wanna take chances now that im no longer a young bull. I gotta thot-proof this nut now that im part of 666 gang. Cant be caught slippin :wow:
 

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Man, this isn’t hard. If you want a child, prepare as best as you can and have one.

If you don’t, then don’t have one. Make sure you’re making moves (contraceptives, vasectomies, not having raw sex), so you don’t have one. I have a kid and want more. I’m not for pressuring anyone that doesn’t want one to have one
 

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Please do. I dont want kids yet so this is something i am seriously considering if I can safely reverse it when im ready to start a family. i was blessed to come out of my wild 20s unscathed, I dont wanna take chances now that im no longer a young bull. I gotta thot-proof this nut now that im part of 666 gang. Cant be caught slippin :wow:
Aight I gotcha breh. Give me some time.
not quite, I just never understood why someone would want one
Well you got people in here telling you why.
 
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I got a vasectomy. I'm not having kids for a few reasons the biggest being that the child would never experience pain or suffering on any level.
I got one as well. Reason for me is I don’t want kids and my ex wife and I at the time decided we didn’t want kids before we got married and she didn’t wanna take birth control anymore for some health reasons. I don’t regret it. Once I got divorced women were all over that in a good way but that’s also because I was dealing with women that didn’t want kids.
 
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