Is there a comprehensive list of arguments for not having a child?

[Thanos]

I be seeing diarrhea of an incel nikka on the TLR for a minute. Do you really want these types of people reproducing especially without doing internal work? I think it's a valid thought to not want any, but if you don't want any, You could help people who do or trying to? Hell, there are millions of kids in foster care or not doing anything important, give back to community.

Y'all talk about you'll be lonely when you get older, but this only happens in societies that don't focus on community.

 

[TRUEST]

Just because you have children doesn’t mean it guaranteed they will take care of you when you’re old. My father had over 16 kids and everyone still fighting on who has to take care of him.

Just having children for them to take care of you when your older is incredibly selfish shyt honestly

Certainly agree with u. See also the problem is if your dad had wealthy type money getting someone to take care of him would not be a burden.

 

[Rekkapryde]

why ask me what if? in either case folk gonna do what folk gonna do

he not around but i subscribe to @skeetsinternal mantra @Rekkapryde are you done makin children?

Yup

Two boys , 10 and almost 15

I’m good

 

[85 East]

Yes, you don't want one.
Children aren't for everyone. If you don't want to have children then don't. Its your life to live and if you don't see yourself raising another human then who the fukk is anyone to tell you otherwise. Just make sure you take the steps needed. Condoms/Pill/Vesectomy etc.

 

[Weaver31]

What if you want children but are broke and a loser. I feel that I am a broke loser.

Would it really be the right thing to have children in that position?

The loser part is subjective but as far as being broke....I would suggest getting ur money up before having responsibilities like children. U gotta provide for them.

 

[Magic Mulatto]

HCB

 

[Hoodoo Child]

For me, it's just not the right time. Career, bills, non-monogamous, emotionally distant etc. I'm not in the right space to raise a child right now.

Plus, I'm in my mid 20s. I'm still a kid my damn self lol

 

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@Booksnrain
@Coco Loco
@Nicole0416_718_929_646212

What are your takes on men with vasectomies?

His body, his choice He wouldn't have been compatible with me because I'm still on the fence about wanting kids, but meh? There are women who don't want children either so I'm sure he could make it work elsewhere.