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Crazy thing I noticed I have been the youngest person at all of the jobs I have worked with everyone being 15-20+ yrs older than me. And its true you dont want to be at a job more than 3 yrs unless you get promoted, because being somewhere too long you are molded into only being useful to that company. One thing that discourages people is jobs asking for totally different tech stacks where its almost feels impossible to build a skill set when so many jobs ask for different things, only to find out the people in the actual jobs dont know any of the stuff and pretty much learn on the fly when ever something comes up that requires it. So much vain stuff goes on with being grilled in interviews for stuff that isn't even used on the job. Thats why I stuck the BA/PM route because those skills are universal and at most you will just need to learn a tool or two that the company may use, but even then I`m seeing BA/PM roles that ask people to know huge tech stacks and I`m like
Yes, sometimes the requirements make me go , like really breh? I've worked enough places to know that interviews are BS. & it sucks nowadays because everybody thinks they are Google, FB and only deserve "the best", so they always ask these crazy ass interview questions that bear no relevance to the actual jobs. hackerrank, cracking the coding interview and leetcode have fukked the game up for real.
& then the fact that you have to spend time after 8 hours of hard work to work on a "side project" so that other employers will take you seriously. I mean its cool, I get it, they want proof that you are really about your shyt. But isn't the fact that I already have employment or have done such and such project in my current job proof enough? I basically have no life whatsoever these days. There's just always this push to just keep going and going so that I can stay competitive.
its like walking up a down escalator. goal posts always being moved. skills are completely disparate (you could be an expert in one specific thing but be clueless on others, and this limits your job options). sometimes i feel like its impossible to not get pigeonholed after you have worked tech long enough. just hope your stack is important / popular enough taht you can bounce from job to job easily.
i'm going to work hard so i can maximize my pay while i'm still young but i definitely don't see myself doing this forever. the longer i become a (professional) programmer the more i hate doing this shyt unfortunately.