Is Shame missing in our community?

[Busted_Toes]

- Glorifying murder and criminality
- Disrespect of elders..
- Sex work being the norm/embraced

No one has a problem with any of it

Say what you want about Asians but they shame game is on point. Same with West Africans.

Does the community with more Shame garner more stability?

 

[Busted_Toes]

 

[DaHNIC82]

Theres none anymore. Its justified as long as you got or getting to "the bag"

 

[old pig]

it’s missing in our society.

 

[ThaBoyBam]

Yes

 

[Mowgli]

All the excuses are built in.

You're a hater
Stop judging me
You're a hypocrite
What about that time you.....
Why you all in my business
Nobody asked you
You're a lame
You aren't even married
You didn't have 2 parents.
You had 2 parents
You're broke
You didn't even go to college
I didn't go to college like you
Your girl not (add race)
You're old you don't understand
Youre on child support

You have no way using language to bring shame to anyone anymore because they'll slip between your fingers with one of these slogans. We're being fattened for calamity.

 

[UpAndComing]

Lord Jamar: Shame is needed




Vlad brings up that most of the porn stars he interviews had a traumatic life. One girl, first time she ever had sex, she was 6. Another had 47 different foster parents

Lord Jamar says I'm sure all of the porn girls got stories, or they wouldn't be there

Then gets into it at 2:23. Dropping that knowledge


"You ever heard of the term Shame the Devil? It's only the devil that don't want to be shamed"

"Shame is a necessary deterrent, from doing some dumb shyt. Alot of things are shameful out here, and people need to be shamed"

"Looks like they are trying to make dysfunctional functional"



Lord Jamar and Vlad father and son role playing at 15:40 had me


The whole interview is piff

 

[RichYung]

Having shame is finished… as a whole… folks getting passes and coddled with EVERYTHING.. it’s over. Have ya own moral code and stick to that

 

[deeman]

Shame is dead. It’s all stay out of women business, or black people business whatever sassy shyt that social media comes up with.

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

A Lowdown, Dirty Shame indeed...

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

It's America in general

 

[The Minister Of Culture]

All the excuses are built in.

You're a hater
Stop judging me
You're a hypocrite
What about that time you.....
Why you all in my business
Nobody asked you
You're a lame

You have no way using language to bring shame to anyone anymore because they'll slip between your fingers with one of these slogans. We're being fattened for calamity.

That "atleast they getting money" added with the ones mentioned is the mentality that is killing anything of integrity in our community

 

[Edub]

But people don’t know how to shame…. they always go to far and start judging…..



But a sense of shame is lacking

 

[African Peasant]

Shame is necessary for a group to regulate itself.

Hyperindividualism participates to kill shame. That's why all these groups are against 'shaming'. They know it's a powerfull tool that guides individuals.

Theres none anymore. Its justified as long as you got or getting to "the bag"

"Can't knock the hustle", "don't hate the platan hate the game", and all those other neo-liberal anti-ethical slogans.

It's America in general

The Western and westernized world in general.

 

[DaPresident]

Shame is only one piece of it. We've made things that shouldn't be cool/accepted, cool and acceptable.



We have to rethink how we THINK. People are too okay with doing "shameful" ish. Wearing next to nothing gets you ALL the attention. Doing stupid things gets you blue checks and real actual checks and celebrity.
You got Brittney Renners and chicks like her that go after athletes and entertainers with pride...they write books on it...Jada openly pining for Tupac and making a mockery of her marriage...then goes and tells the whole world about it.
We need our "elders" to be respected again. That's what I think we really need, is respect...for self and for others