Is Shame missing in our community?

[UberEatsDriver]

There is no shame. Get it how you get it. Even the successful young black folks are into all this shyt

 

[Yinny]

Eh I think accountability and empathy are the right tools and not saying “everyone does it” because it’s really not true nor does it justify someone’s actions.

Shame and fear shouldn’t be the way you raise healthy people.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

But if you try to "shame" Black folks into getting a vaccine you're a "fear monger" and/or "shill"

Lets see how many of you keep the same energy on that particular subject. Personally, i think most the posters in this thread won't.

And idk if its satire or irony that the op posted a pornstar 5mins into his own thread. Man has about half a dozen threads or so dedicated to this particular pornstar.

But anyway the premise of the thread is somewhat true to an extent. But the problem lies in that not everyone gonna agree whats shameful and what isn't. Unless this thread is suggesting people should automatically change their behavior if enough people shame them for it.

Issue isnt that simple.

 

[B86]

What’s shameful too (and needs to be shamed) is how people are in here like “it’s America in general”. How is everybody on this forum so pro-black but stay worried about what every other race is doing? WE ARE TALKING ABOUT US. fukk what everybody else needs to do; everybody else ain’t at the bottom of the totem pole in this country so we can’t afford to be like everybody else.

It’s shameful that we start pointing the finger at somebody else on some “but they do it too” kindergarten shyt in every conversation somehow

 

[Mike the Executioner]

My sister in law slept over two days ago because her and her man got in a fight..she was sleeping on the couch and I got up at 1am to piss and saw her leaning halfway off the couch, half her titty hanging out.. I closed the bedroom door so wifey wouldn't wake up and then peaked around the hallway corner and pulled my dikk out and beat off to her exposed titty meat. Nutted on the hardwood floor like Without making a sound and went to bed..next day I dapped up her husband wit the hand I beat off wit when he came to pick her up. ...nikkas ain't got no shame smh

 

[GoAggieGo.]

Older Black generations grew up closer to family and in tighter knit communities who held them accountable.

once Black people started fleeing to all white communities that ended and we started taking on white ways. Whites have traditionally had no respect for themselves and their elders. It used to be white women who dressed like whores coming outta the house.

we used to be able to correct any Black child in our neighborhood, now if you say something to a Black child you may end up getting into with their parent.

As I’ve said we’ve taken on white ways and there’s no turning back.

Good post. Meant to comment yesterday.

I used to spend my summers with my grandparents in a small, rural, southern city. That sense of community lasted for a good bit, but it faded in the early 2000’s. We all went to the same church, saw each other around town. If my siblings or I acted up, someone in the community would put us on the right path. My grandparents would do the same with other kids in the community. That type of care from the community is about over. I thank God I got to experience that.

You’re spot on about not being able to say anything to kids now. The kids mom won’t let you say anything to her baby, and you can expect confrontation. There’s also a chance she’ll get her personal crash test dummy aka her man at the time, to come and deal with you.

 

[CW_1991]

It's a tool that strong functional communities with a strong culture use to deter undesirable and embarrassing behavior and actions.

Children are supposed to be raised to inherently understand the importance of not dishonoring their family.

But thanks to blacks embracing liberalism you don't have that anymore

 

[fifth column]

Eh I think accountability and empathy are the right tools and not saying “everyone does it” because it’s really not true nor does it justify someone’s actions.

Shame and fear shouldn’t be the way you raise healthy people.

If my kids didn’t fear that I could possibly whoop their ass then they would go WWE in the house with no repercussions. I would never steal from someone because of the shame and disappointment it would cause my mother and elder family.

 

[BarackStar]

Matriarchies don’t shame because women are scared of holding each other accountable. Make patriarchy great again or collapse civilization

 

[Wildhundreds]

It's a tool that strong functional communities with a strong culture use to deter undesirable and embarrassing behavior and actions.

Children are supposed to be raised to inherently understand the importance of not dishonoring their family.

But thanks to blacks embracing liberalism you don't have that anymore

Some of these people starting to make internet families though.. And its sad..

How can some unknown person on the internet have more influence over you than the people who raised you?

And when shyt get real, them internet friends are absolutely no where to be found.. When the millennials become the age of the boomers they hate so much, they'll be the most miserable generation known to man..

 

[MischievousMonkey]

This is part of why shame is dead. A lot of the moralizers are hypocrites. "Pro family" politicians on their third wives, men who force women into burquas while they fly out IG models for sex parties, women saying to be housewives while they're flying around the country giving speeches and thier kids are raised by au pairs. The emperor has no clothes.

The GOAT

Spoiler

The irony of these two posts being next to each other

 

[Busted_Toes]

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

 

[LuuqMaan]

 

[Ohene]

Theres none anymore. Its justified as long as you got or getting to "the bag"

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