So if they want it, its not abuse in your view?
We have laws that dictate that having sex with underage people is illegal. I'm in favor of most of those laws (exception being those states where an 18 year old can't be with a 17 year old)
However, I don't feel much "pain" for a girl that passes up boys her age to chase a grown man, but then wants to say she was a victim by that same grown man. The ones I know personally haven't vocalized any regrets about it, but in the media and internet you do hear these women saying later on that it was disgusting. Well, it was their decision. I don't consider them a "victim". However, if they want to prosecute the adult that slept with them, I have no problem with that either.