Is pedophilia really prevalent in the black community?

[Gaara]

It happens to both girls and boys a fair bit in the black community. I would go as far to say that male victims of it are way more ignored than female victims of it.

And black men are not the only perpetrators of it. Matter of fact i think Tommy Sotomayor said something about being molested by a female family member as a child.

 

[MysticMonroe]

I hope Allah doesn't give me daughter.

I wish she would try to tell me she's seeing a 20+ year old nikka at 13. Her brothers would find that nikka and skin him and we'd take care of her in house.

fukk is wrong with these worthless parents?

They probably did it when they were younger. I watched a Judge Mathis episode where baby mama and baby daddy was suing each other for something. During the case it came out that the girl was a minor when she got pregnant and the baby daddy was an adult. Judge Mathis asked how your parents allowed an older guy to be hanging around. The girl said her mom knew and the baby daddy said he used to give the girl and her momma gifts, so the mama overlooked it.

 

[Nomad1]

More "black people men ain't shyt" rhetoric gotta love it

 

[Unknown Poster]

BTW, I feel for people that faced sexual abuse from family members or from older people. It's not cool. In all honesty, this thread, especially given the sensitive nature of the topic, should not be this flooded with immaturity, ignorance and just...I don't even know. This thread provided a new low for this forum and a sad one at that. Jesus....

 

[Michael9100]

Is a 26 year old dating a 16 year old breaking a law of nature or a law of man?

I say this to highlight the variables which must be taken into consideration if we're being 100.

Being 100...a hundred years ago...a girl could be married off by the age of 15. And she wasn't married off to no 16 year old youngster either.

All this to put in perspective this problem of older men, going after younger women. Is it simply natural? Really, what benefit does a young woman get by marrying a young man her age? In this world of economics, when a young man isn't established and can't adequately provide for a family.

I'm not arguing FOR these relationships, just showing some of the reasons why.

Men, 70s, 60s, 50s, 40s, 30s...), its just a safe bet to date women in their 20s(20-29).....

If you're a 33 year old man and dating a 20 year old woman..... that isn't a problem.... but if you're 33 dating a 18 year old, problem!

.....its just a safe bet to date women in their 20s(20-29).....

 

[Michael9100]

And I agree.... people who intentionally go out of their way to "date" teens are sick...

 

[agnosticlady]

Because they are young and dumb. 13 isn't old enough to make informed discussions. Some of these girls have hot tails and want older men. They should be rejected by the more responsible smart adult. Just because p*ssy is being thrown at a man doesn't mean it has to be caught. All young girls get told to avoid der ln end. Some listen, some don't.

Hence the reason why we are discussing. Parents should rear their daughters better to stop being sexually active so young. Abstinence should be more heavily encourage by both the parents and community. Parents should be aware of who their kids are hanging out with, girls get influenced by their friends bad behavior. The parents and community should discourage such activity when ever it's seen.

You are right. That is what I meant earlier by people speaking from a myopic perspective. I remember being in the 8th grade and I had a friend who was 15 at the time. She was seeing an older guy who was 24. She would print out fake field trip forms online, or use the ones the teachers gave out then tell her mom that she was going on a field trip. He would buy her clothes, pay for her to get her hair and nails done, Pay her cellphone bill and etc. She had a tattoo on her lower back that said fantasy or something along those line. I know if I would have came home at 13 with a new hair style and new clothes with no job my parents would question everything and call everyone in my cellphone.

Any man willing to sleep with a teenager is pretty much sick and disgusting. It does happen in our community, but people stay quite about it. Like I mentioned earlier there are children molesting children, women molesting young boys/girls, men molesting young boys/girls.

When i was in high school a few of the football coaches were having sex with the students. One of them would tell the boys on the team which girls were easy and to get with them. I remember him substituting for my Human Geography class and talking to a few of the guys in the class about which girls were easy. Additionally, a lot of girls at my high school were growing up too fast, Some started stripping at 18 because they would watch ratchet shows, and see stuff on Instagram thinking they could be the next Amber Rose.

 

[agnosticlady]

They probably did it when they were younger. I watched a Judge Mathis episode where baby mama and baby daddy was suing each other for something. During the case it came out that the girl was a minor when she got pregnant and the baby daddy was an adult. Judge Mathis asked how your parents allowed an older guy to be hanging around. The girl said her mom knew and the baby daddy said he used to give the girl and her momma gifts, so the mama overlooked it.

This is what I said previously. A lot of mothers KNOW when their daughters are being molested by men in the family, dating an older adult, or in a relationship with one. Many look past it, especially if he is giving gifts.

 

[agnosticlady]

It happens to both girls and boys a fair bit in the black community. I would go as far to say that male victims of it are way more ignored than female victims of it.

And black men are not the only perpetrators of it. Matter of fact i think Tommy Sotomayor said something about being molested by a female family member as a child.

Yes it does happen to boys and is rarely spoken about. I think a major part of it has to do with the fact that we live in a society that will applaud a boy for engaging in sexual acts so young. There have been many cases where I will see a report about a young boy being molested by an older female or a girl his age, and the men would call him lame for being traumatized or reporting it.

 

[Redeem87]

Not with the people I fuks with

 

[agnosticlady]

Gotta homegirl who is 33 with 5 kids. Two of her kids are by the dopeman that used to look out after us young nikkas when we were little. Dude knocked her up when she was 16 and he was like 24. If I'm being honest, she didn't look 16 but still she was 16. As a youngin' I remember all the nikkas my age tryna talk to her but she thought nikkas our age were too "immature" and too "young-minded".

While I am not tryna alleviate any blame on the OG, becuz at the end of the day she was a minor and he was an adult, it doesn't help when a young girl has that mentality towards dudes her age. I don't even know what it means. We're not "mature" ? What the fukk was he for diggin' out a 16 yr old girl?

I left the ghetto when I was 19. Is that same silly ass shyt going on? Lame ass grown men running around with teenage boppers talking about the nikkas her age are too young for her?

Yep it still happens

The adult men tell them that for sex and these young girls genuinely believe it. I knew a girl that was 16 dating a 24 yr old dude. He told her she was mature for her age. They all say that.

It's sad, that is why it is important for parents ot be in their childs life and provide them with self esteem

Do you have a link for that?
omg. I searched for the area I went to school, and one of my sister's former classmates was on there for having some sort of sexual contact with a three yr old.

When I was in high school in the early 2000s, more than a few 10th and 11th grades broads was skipping school and getting picked up by 20+ year old nikkas.

Most used to brag about having older BFs that used to buy them things.

That was common when I was in high school (I am 20). Sadly a lot of these young ladies were catching STD's (yes even HIV/AIDS) from these older dudes from not using a condom. It got so bad that they has to bring the HIV/AIDS bus to my high school. We had a Chlamydia outbreak and Syphilis outbreak.

 

[Izanami]

Can't believe nikkas came in to this thread to victim blame, Deflect and cape for PEDOS.

 

[Madrasas]

People need to learn the definition of the term "pedophilia-" which is the sexual attraction to prepubescent kids ie the type you'd find in an elementary school.

 

[GoldTeef]

People need to learn the definition of the term "pedophilia-" which is the sexual attraction to prepubescent kids ie the type you'd find in an elementary school.

this is true

unfortunately the focus of this thread was on grown men dating highschoolers instead of older family members sexually abusing underage family members

 

[Booker T Garvey]

I know a girl who lost her virginity at 12, to a nikka who was 19. She said he was "watching" her and flirted with her for years before that

I remember being a freshman in HS, this one bytch, who had a BODY on her(cute face too) would get picced up by her bf every day after school. nikka was atleast 20 something, she was still a sophomore.

did we go to the same school!?

i saw this same shyt, it was so bad that our freshman year, us dudes would talk about how we couldnt compete with the dope boys with cars who use to fukk em all.

those same females on facebook with their husbands and families now though living like angels n shyt