Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

[GreenGhxst]

You should be single if you're referring to people like they're inanimate unemotional objects, can't imagine it would feel good if a girl told me I was her starter dude

You should be shooting A1 everytime and only upgrading when your current ain't treating you right

 

[JackRoss]

I feel bad as shyt doing that but I don't plan on upgrading my life anytime soon and I'm good where I'm at.. I wasn't raised to be a piece of shyt that doesn't understand the meaning of loyalty... I couldn't do better regardless

 

[proudtobe]

It depends on how freaky she is if the starter wife for example let's me suck on her toes I'm not going to drop her for a chick that won't allow it.

 

[5n0man]

What do you call a women who would get with a dude, blows up and get it's made, and then leaves him for a baller/rich dude?

Since when are women willing to date down?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Charge her to the game. Women are disposable

 

[Koba St]

So basically you're willing to do some fukk shyt because other people might do it to you?

Yes?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

It makes sense. If you're a female who was with a dude when he had nothing, he's gonna look at you as a low value chick when he finally gets put on. Like, "you still wanted me when I wasn't shyt, so you must not be shyt yourself. "

If you're a regular dude with a chick from day one, you should already know she's going to upgrade when she gets a chance.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

 

[Black Nate Grey]

On topic yes, especially if the upgrade can improve you're life/hand you new opportunities beyond looks.

If the Day One cooks, cleans, takes care of you, is a good person, etc. And the upgrade doesn't, don't do it.
Upgrade all aspects, not just looks.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Men do it all the time, this is why I only date men that are already rich. As my dad always says, "do you wanna be the chick jay z wrote song cry for or do you wanna be Beyoncé".

Do I wanna be torrei hart or do I wanna be eniko?

you do know that only works if you already have clout

 

[brickfare]

starter wives

y'all nikkas ain't shyt

 

[Roid Jones]

When I get put on, I'm shooting straight for the upgrade

 

[Cant Ban The Snow Man]

That's just not right. What if your wife cleans out your bank account in the case that you start going broke or get injured. Not much of Tyler Perry movie watcher but like what that chick did to that lawyer in "Diary of a Mad Black Woman." You'll be hurt and looking for the first one again but she may have moved on.

 

[MalikX]

Girls do it. Fat chicks lose weight then suddenly "fall out of love" with their loser boyfriends.

 

[Geek Nasty]

What do you call a women who would get with a dude, blows up and get it's made, and then leaves him for a baller/rich dude?

A woman