Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

chowism

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Y'all the same nikkas complaining about females not being loyal and GMB but then have the nerve to cosign some disloyal fukk shyt. The hypocrisy on here is on extreme levels. Let it be you woman trying to upgrade she would be all types of bytches then smh.
 

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This is what happens, guys don't want to stay with the girl they were with when they were struggling because she's apart of the struggle so she gets left behind. I'm not a gold digger, I have my own monies I'm just protecting myself from being a starter gf or a stepping stone-relationship.

My husband was with his ex for hella long, he was in college and she wanted to get married but he said he wasn't ready, when he met me he was done with school and already in his career and wanted to marry me immediately. :manny:
 

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Y'all the same nikkas complaining about females not being loyal and GMB but then have the nerve to cosign some disloyal fukk shyt. The hypocrisy on here is on extreme levels. Let it be you woman trying to upgrade she would be all types of bytches then smh.


Then that just gives us more reason to do it:yeshrug:

If i see a better option im bushin her
 

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So basically you're willing to do some fukk shyt because other people might do it to you?

Im willing to do some fukk shyt cuz i want to:mjlol:




But to expect women not to upgrade if they got a chance is naeve. They actually practice that more than men. Theres no hard feelings tho u gotta get urs and I gotta get mines.:jawalrus:
 

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Women do it to men. I know girls who check the credit scores of men before they go on a date with rhem. If you bank at the one they work at they'll see how much money you have in your accounts.

I live with girls and the shyt I hear is crazy. Men do not hate women as much as women hate men.

Men might want many women but we do not hate women. Women get together to talk about how much they hate men. They discuss how much a man has to make for them to take them seriously.

Funny thing is none of these girls want kids. I dunno why they're counting pockets.

If you ain't trying to upgrade you're behind in the game. A woman will upgrade from and shyt on her former man.

I don't believe in ditching day ones. I grew up playing team sports and I view relationships different than those who did not.
 

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Im willing to do some fukk shyt cuz i want to:mjlol:




But to expect women not to upgrade if they got a chance is naeve. They actually practice that more than men. Theres no hard feelings tho u gotta get urs and I gotta get mines.:jawalrus:
A man without principles or honor:scust:. Shout out to real nikkas like LeBron James and Denzel Washington:salute:. Some of you nikkas are like females with how you operate.
 

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This shyt is very common with rich folks. From Rosanne Barr to Jim Carey.

The shyt is especially this way in music, tv and movies. Cause most the time you got to fukk your way to the top.
 

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upgrade a gf? yeah, sure.:jawalrus:

upgrade a wife? nah, b.:scust: esp if she been there through the ups and downs.

Just me tho.

Loyalty >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Now if she lets herself go and ain't bout shyt no more then that's another story.
 
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