Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

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This is what happens, guys don't want to stay with the girl they were with when they were struggling because she's apart of the struggle so she gets left behind. I'm not a gold digger, I have my own monies I'm just protecting myself from being a starter gf or a stepping stone-relationship.

My husband was with his ex for hella long, he was in college and she wanted to get married but he said he wasn't ready, when he met me he was done with school and already in his career and wanted to marry me immediately. :manny:
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Its dumb to bush a day 1...the type that'll take a charge for you.....unless the upgrade's net worth will change your life. Looks aint a factor.

I'm convinced that's a lesson most men are incapable of learning. Pretty/Shrewd women will always have that open road in front of them paved by a simp's lust. :manny:
 

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I'm convinced that's a lesson most men are incapable of learning. Pretty/Shrewd women will always have that open road in front of them paved by a simp's lust. :manny:

Yep men like nice looking women and women love men with power and money.

I can show you a man who would risk it all to be with a pretty woman and I could show you a woman who would risk it all to be with a man (no matter how he looked) with money and power.

Been that way since the beginning of time.
 
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You ever heard of Palimony? In some states they will award her half of your dough simply because you lived with each other or were involved for x amount of years....especially if she can provode proof of you cheating....ne best to just do your solo thing until you settle down.....you don't play with fire breh....wake up with your dikk laying next to you one morning

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Men do it all the time, this is why I only date men that are already rich. As my dad always says, "do you wanna be the chick jay z wrote song cry for or do you wanna be Beyoncé".

Do I wanna be torrei hart or do I wanna be eniko?

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AND THERE YOU HAVE IT.
 

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Tom brady did it. Anyone who stans brady but is against this is a hypocrite

:comeon: He was never married to the Moynahan chick. And she bad. Giselle a supermodel sure, but this bytch was hot too.

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:laff: So basically an open relationship where you sponsor her lifestyle? Would you be mad if she was getting some on the side too and spending your money on the next dude?

Stop asking stupid questions.

I'm a man, of course imma be mad.

She gon fukk around and fall in love with the nikka :russ:


Men with options enjoying variety has been going on since before Jesus was around.

Women don't enjoy variety, they get emotionally invested.

I'm not looking for a replacement or emotional investment or a second relationship

Your queen is your queen at the end of the day.

These hoes are these hoes.

If she wanted a man with zero means and zero options, she would choose up on the cashier or the KFC manager.

That's just how I feel.

I know it aint right but women being taken care of already know what time it is.

Women could easily boss up on their own and this entire system would collapse because all leverage would be taken away from the man instantly.


The same goes in reverse.... if you got a rich dime and you some broke bum nikka... you better boss up or shut up and enjoy the ride
 

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So your plan is to purposely get with a women you only know is with you for your money?:patrice:

I mean thats fine, but then there will be a thread a week from now about how much you hate gold diggers.

Yeah...this has to be the mindset of a young nikka...

shyt doesn't even make sense...

If you know you gonna be out here chasing hoes...why even get a GF/Wife in the first place?
 

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Stop asking stupid questions.

I'm a man, of course imma be mad.

She gon fukk around and fall in love with the nikka :russ:


Men with options enjoying variety has been going on since before Jesus was around.

Women don't enjoy variety, they get emotionally invested.

I'm not looking for a replacement or emotional investment or a second relationship

Your queen is your queen at the end of the day.

These hoes are these hoes.

If she wanted a man with zero means and zero options, she would choose up on the cashier or the KFC manager.

That's just how I feel.

I know it aint right but women being taken care of already know what time it is.

Women could easily boss up on their own and this entire system would collapse because all leverage would be taken away from the man instantly.


The same goes in reverse.... if you got a rich dime and you some broke bum nikka... you better boss up or shut up and enjoy the ride

So then as long as your women was just enjoying a variety of dikks but not falling in love, it was purely physical, then you'd be ok with it?

As long as she promised not to get emotionally invested and she still did what she was supposed to as your wife.
 
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