Is it better to find a woman while you’re building or once you made it and become a 6 certs, breh then start looking?

LadyJ2

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Always better to find a woman to settle down with after you are successful.

Your tastes will change and you will struggle with loyalty.

Men ultimately want their dream girl not the grind girl.
 

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Find her asap so you don't end up with the leftovers. Clowns in their 30s wondering where all the good women went. They got wifed up asap. Mid 20s. All that waiting doing is making you wait for the perfect hoe..

a conservative woman have an easy 20 bodies by age 30 fukking 2 guys a year since 18. CONSERVATIVE

If you find a woman who cooks, cleans up after you without being asked and is ready to follow your lead you will regret settling down with a woman who makes a turkey sandwich a wrestling match. I promise you
 
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Always better to find a woman to settle down with after you are successful.

Your tastes will change and you will struggle with loyalty.

Men ultimately want their dream girl not the grind girl.


And when adversity hits and she's never seen you in a rough spot, when it all stops being fun and giggles and entertainment and it's back to square one grind time...then what?





There is rarely "better"...only different. Thinking you're going to wait around for "better" is the reasoning of children who want choices with no consequences. They all have consequences. Assess the consequences you're prepared to deal with, make your choices and live your life.

And yes, refusing to make a choice is it's own choice, with it's own consequences.
 

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And when adversity hits and she's never seen you in a rough spot, when it all stops being fun and giggles and entertainment and it's back to square one grind time...then what?





There is rarely "better"...only different. Thinking you're going to wait around for "better" is the reasoning of children who want choices with no consequences. They all have consequences. Assess the consequences you're prepared to deal with, make your choices and live your life.

And yes, refusing to make a choice is it's own choice, with it's own consequences.
She expects adversity and if she is a good woman she is prepared for it mentally. She will give you time and space to figure it out. Not forever but for a period of time. Don’t waste it.
 

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Worth noting that most high income couples in America met in college and married either while in school or shortly after graduation. So they marry while building towards the six figure job and it allows you to get where you want faster. Pay off debts/loans after, first house faster, enrollment in that nice daycare faster, social club fee costs faster, etc. That's why your doctor is probably married to an attorney, your boss is probably married to an engineer, etc.
 

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Always better to find a woman to settle down with after you are successful.

Your tastes will change and you will struggle with loyalty.

Men ultimately want their dream girl not the grind girl.

This is backwards as the only time a man knows if a woman desires him is when he has little or nothing. Worst time for a man to pick a woman is when he has everything.
 
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