Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[Elle Driver]

I care about the future of my community.

We don't exist in a vacuum.

If I could, I wouldn't give a fukk about what happens in the Black community. But, I know if I don't try to help, the dysfunction will eventually visit my doorstep, try to rob me, break into my house, etc.

Calling them underdeveloped minds helps?

 

[Blackout]

I'm around those types of people often. Black males rarely embody those traits.

So Ive been able to meet many good black people and yet you havent.

I wonder why they flock to me and dont exist around you.

 

[bcrusaderw]

So Ive been able to meet many good black people and yet you havent.

I wonder why they flock to me and dont exist around you.

I meet good black women all the time, and sometimes although rarily good black males.

 

[Blackout]

and sometimes although rarily good black males.

So I bump into good black males almost everywhere I go yet you rarely bump into them?

Interesting.

 

[bcrusaderw]

So I bump into good black males almost everywhere I go yet you rarely bump into them?

Interesting.

Bumping into someone doesn't allow you to ascertain whether they are good or not. You actually need to have a conversation to do that which happens when one is approached, working around their school, place of employment etc. I highly doubt you are having conversations with these people that you deem to be "good".

 

[Blackout]

Bumping into someone doesn't allow you to ascertain whether they are good or not. You actually need to have a conversation to do that which happens when one is approached, working around their school, place of employment etc. I highly doubt you are having conversations with these people that you deem to be "good".

Yes I am. I always talk to good black men and women.

You think I dont do what I post about on here in real life?

 

[mamba]

Calling them underdeveloped minds helps?

I call a spade a spade. I don't have time to sugarcoat.

A lot of them have underdeveloped minds.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I call a spade a spade. I don't have time to sugarcoat.

A lot of them have underdeveloped minds.

You being one of them.

 

[Lana del Rey]

Hey @bcrusaderw , I was reading about the out of wedlock rate with biracial kids and about how white womens out of wedlock rate is higher with black men than it is with white men. How are these women supposedly choosing good white guys to be with and not so good black guys to be with??

 

[bcrusaderw]

Hey @bcrusaderw , I was reading about the out of wedlock rate with biracial kids and about how white womens out of wedlock rate is higher with black men than it is with white men. How are these women supposedly choosing good white guys to be with and not so good black guys to be with??

The answer is simple, but to the unaccountable black male it's everyone else's fault.

 

[thewiz]

I meet good black women all the time, and sometimes although rarily good black males.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Problem?

 

[thewiz]

Problem?

Yes, your biased views. What's your definition of a good woman and a good man?

 

[bcrusaderw]

So the women HAVE to procreate with the worthless black men because the good black men are non existent?

So wait, it is better to go and get pregnant by a worthless man, have a child, and then later complain about worthless men?

So there are black women CHOOSING to get pregnant by worthless men because there are no good black men?



So it's not that a lot of black women skip over good black men for college boy swag, tupac in a business suit, materialism, and etc. It's because there are no good black men. It's not because there are black women entering a relationship with men and not consider whether or not he would be a good father/husband, but instead because there are no good black men.

Ok so why didn't you get pregnant by a worthless black man since there are no good black men around? Since these women can't help that they are getting pregnant by worthless men why aren't you having a baby by a worthless black man?

@YaThreadFloppedB!

Yes, to your first question. Most women have a very strong urge to procreate. I don't have that urge which is why I'm not getting pregnant it's that simple.

 

[agnosticlady]

@YaThreadFloppedB!

Yes, to your first question. Most women have a very strong urge to procreate. I don't have that urge which is why I'm not getting pregnant it's that simple.

So a woman's strong urge to procreate is forcing her to procreate with worthless black men who are not goof father material? So why are there other black women who married good black men throughout the world? I don't think the urge to procreate is just an American thing. Why aren't black women globally just having kids out of wedlock left and right to worthless black men?