Is Dating Plausible These Dayz?

Rozay Oro

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That getting you heart crushed early is really the important part. It hurts but it's the only way that someone can truly learn how to build that self love inside them. Once you have that the world is in the palm of your hands. That's when you truly know you can want someone but don't really need them to make you happy. The women go crazy for you when you have this mindset. Because they will always believe that they will be the one to change it so they will do any and everything for you to prove themselves right:wow:
I’m pretty sure I been thru that. Once a girl goes cold or act like she can’t text. I just move on. I just don’t feel sad anymore. Do feel a little weird accepting women can be fickle over anything. fukk it.
 

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Y’all love wasting your time writing these long ass posts. Neeeever gonna get never gonna get it
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I get it. Simps down, pimps up. I just have to work on the deprogramming that bytches love to fukk. That’s it. Don’t fumble the p*ssy. Keep the love for your mama and pets.

Edit: I’m not trying to be a b*stard like skeetsinternal. That’s too much.
 

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I’m pretty sure I been thru that. Once a girl goes cold or act like she can’t text. I just move on. I just don’t feel sad anymore. Do feel a little weird accepting women can be fickle over anything. fukk it.
And that's the answer right there breh. They don't even know what they want on an hour to hour basis. So don't sweat it. Just focus on yourself and your path and women will come and go. Once you find the right one and are ready just lock her down and hopefully it works out
 

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And that's the answer right there breh. They don't even know what they want on an hour to hour basis. So don't sweat it. Just focus on yourself and your path and women will come and go. Once you find the right one and are ready just lock her down and hopefully it works out
Even tho I got this girl on me for sunday. I just want to focus a career change now. Idc bout these dumb bytches anymore. No homo nor asexual bullshyt. Sex is always awesome. fukk it I rather focus on my bread now. Idgaf bout marriage anymore. I want to make money and make dope samples based beats. I literally want to isolate myself for a bit. Just got paid like $700 and some change but I want more and less labor based.
 

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Disagree. It takes a massive shift from what many were raised on which is the disconnect

Its tougher than ever for a man who just wants a genuine partner.

When you actually find the women with morals and is "high value" she wants you to be her best friend, supporter, lover, the one who prevents them from lookin at other brehs, protector, emotional and understanding but logical and check em, in shape, financially set, to be adventurous and keep en excited and entertained, etc.

its actually impossible for one person to maintain. I've seen plenty of good women leave great men because the men burnt out doing it all and required more from the woman

I feel this way as well.
 

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Yeah bruh.

Gotta be prepared to wear many hats or make sure shes got her own support system where she can get some of those needs met outside of you.
Definitely breh... I had a situation like that with my ex. Before covid we spent time together but we had work and other things to keep some distance to always keep it fresh. But she lost her job in the first months of it and my schedule changed so there were days where we would be at the house together for six days straight with nothing to do. It was cool at first since we just had sex most of the time. But she started to become depressed because she couldn't work and she didn't really have friends so she didn't have an outlet. I would try to help but she snapped on me and was just negative. So I figured I would start spending time over my dad house a bit to build up that missing me part. She completely took that the wrong way and thought I was cheating!! I even caught her driving by my dad house because we were sitting on the porch and she came by to verify:francis::scust::gucci:. But I had to tell her that I can't be everything for you. You have to have a separate life for us to function well. But you know accountability and women are like oil and water so it was my fault for visiting my dad:mjtf:
 

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Definitely breh... I had a situation like that with my ex. Before covid we spent time together but we had work and other things to keep some distance to always keep it fresh. But she lost her job in the first months of it and my schedule changed so there were days where we would be at the house together for six days straight with nothing to do. It was cool at first since we just had sex most of the time. But she started to become depressed because she couldn't work and she didn't really have friends so she didn't have an outlet. I would try to help but she snapped on me and was just negative. So I figured I would start spending time over my dad house a bit to build up that missing me part. She completely took that the wrong way and thought I was cheating!! I even caught her driving by my dad house because we were sitting on the porch and she came by to verify:francis::scust::gucci:. But I had to tell her that I can't be everything for you. You have to have a separate life for us to function well. But you know accountability and women are like oil and water so it was my fault for visiting my dad:mjtf:
Bruh I just lost a good relationship almost the same way during COVID. I completely get where you are coming from.

The thing is, once you make the healthier choice to step back and do you. They are always going to either adjust or leave.

My ex is set on that I made her feel stupid and dumb for having emotions and was emotionally invalidating smh.

It was a gaslighting nightmare
 

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I just refinanced my home.

My interest rate and Mortgage payment is now lower.

I still don't get p*ssy tho so you obviously doing something right.
Count your blessings. I live with my mom and work a plant job. fukking dumb tinder bytches. Some have been cute, some have been fat, some have been sexy. In the end it’s just a nut. Took a long ass time to get here but I did because I didn’t give up. As much as I bytched and moaned on here. I did try different hairstyles and shyt. Retail helped me be more social. Life’s a bytch for a lot of us. We all got different struggles.
 

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Ah fukk, he's back :why:
I’m back but I don’t plan to make more threads. Don’t even have time I’m working third shift to get my paper up. I don’t want to talk to most of you to be honest. Just want advice from those who can give me wisdom. I was depressed and was getting fukked up constantly. I’m genuinely embarrassed and don’t want to do that again.
 

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I’m back but I don’t plan to make more threads. Don’t even have time I’m working third shift to get my paper up. I don’t want to talk to most of you to be honest. Just want advice from those who can give me wisdom. I was depressed and was getting fukked up constantly. I’m genuinely embarrassed and don’t want to do that again.
Hope it all works out for you, breh

You be on some bullshyt at times, don't get me wrong :ufdup:

But I still hope to see you winning

Depression aint no joke, so I hope you're in a better place now
 
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