Y’all love wasting your time writing these long ass posts. Neeeever gonna get never gonna get it
Is Dating Plausible These Dayz?
That getting you heart crushed early is really the important part. It hurts but it's the only way that someone can truly learn how to build that self love inside them. Once you have that the world is in the palm of your hands. That's when you truly know you can want someone but don't really need them to make you happy. The women go crazy for you when you have this mindset. Because they will always believe that they will be the one to change it so they will do any and everything for you to prove themselves right
Malik1time
What you looking at?
OP put so much energy in the wrong places
Ezekiel 25:17
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I'm bout to start negging this nikka if he don't start posting pics
Music Fiend
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29 nikkaHow old are you breh? Gotta be 30+ right?
If you want kids, it's best to raise them in the context of a marriage
Oh well you sound a bit like an idealist, I just don't believe you have to have your heart crushed to do better/know better when it come to women
As a guy who has shyt on you/clowned you disregarded you, all the while watching you time on here casually through threads, I can see your understanding has progressed, and you're at an impasse. The answer isn't anger it's acceptance. I used to feel the same way, but the truth is women don't love you for you, they love you for what you can provide them physically (fukking), emotionally (validation only but so often, gotta make them work for it), and mentally (security in having someone who can hold them down). You, Rozay Oro, guy with dreams of a music career, who ponders his existence, who has issues to work through. They don't care about that guy, because that guy in the last sentence is random dude #5602596 to them.
Again I'm a lil younger than you. That Tell Me - Groove Theory, I Just Called To Say I Love - Stevie Wonder, Lady - D'amgelo, type woman that makes you melt into the warm of your desire for her continued companionship doesn't exist. A plain old, dependable solid gf is a tough ask now as well. Women that seem to be either of the latter can appear if you pass a certain threshold in value/status, but as you know my now it's a mirage, and not predicated on Rozay.
It ain't fun, it ain't fair, but neither is life. You gotta find you own peace of mind. You're not a simp anymore, because you KNOW better, you could indulge in simp like activities, but that like a relatively smart person opting to do dumb shyt. ----> wasted potential/time/effort.
I've said it to other posters but get selfish and fall in love with self improvement and the process of self improvement. You should be looking to squeeze women in here and there as opposed to predicating your time, or your free time around them. Keep growing, and learn from mistakes, gl breh
The ether that comes with the truth...most nikkas don’t wish to hear this.
Then again hearing it like this makes the whole thing sound like a pointless endeavor ; not worth it the squeeze
BaldingSoHard
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I did the same and I cannot co-sign this enough.
Don't even think about being serious with a woman until you're in your 30's.
I don't care how bad she is or how well she sucks dikk.
Don't do it.
Music Fiend
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I'm a realist. Thats like saying you don't have to lose in order to win. That's idealist.
Most ppl get smacked before their mid 20s at least once. Cheated on and not seeing it coming, getting broken up with, making a mistake that ends things , a your partner moves on quickly, your partners past crushing you, getting with someone who has mental health problems.
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I'm saying you don't have to get burned to know fire is hot. Experience is good, but bad experiences =/= necessity for seeing red flags
This encompasses the belief of MGTOW, there are loser and people who don't want to accept the facts of life that get bitter than try to claim it, but true MGTOW folk know that the facts that lead to the bolded conclusion are what they are, you can either adapt and play, or largely pass on it. MGTOW opts for the latter, dealing with women when you feel like it, on your terms only. I don't knock anyone's choice/how any moves outside of simps really. I just know where I stand.
Ok I’ll move onnikka i hope you didnt really text ur so fine baby...smh..u sharing her breh..women know they look good, no need to tell them that, it does nothing for them but turns them off.
At this point I don’t feel much in general
fakkit fukk off. I’m asking for advice, not trying to impress a single fakkit. Especially not you.I'm bout to start negging this nikka if he don't start posting pics
You’re right. fukk it, just trying to do job and save money. I’ll be doing IT in a few months hopefully with a higher hourly wage.