Is Dating Plausible These Dayz?
Music Fiend
Superstar
you gotta get ya heart severely crushed in your 20s. Short relationships are cool but if u set short sights you'll prevent really attaching.
you do not want to be in your late 20s or early 30s never being deeply hurt or learning how to care for another and maintain your own self
Snapchst shows that I screenshot itThis nikka talks about all the p*ssy he gets but ain't post not a one damn picture.
Breh let's be honest, you don't get p*ssy
Breh you better get what you can’t out of it.
and that’s p*ssy, some meals (maybe) and if you get one of these 35-40 something year old chicks then have them buy you an air fryer, some Sonos speakers or something for that crib that will last far longer than the “relationship”
You are in your 20s. This is not the time to even be considering locking anything down.
Are your deficiencies even taken care of? Do you have good $ coming in, your body/health is on point and you are working on projects that you’re passionate about? (And blowing down trees and drinking isn’t a passion project)
I’m working on debt, 17hr, and I got to get on my purpose. Playin piano.Breh you better get what you can’t out of it.
and that’s p*ssy, some meals (maybe) and if you get one of these 35-40 something year old chicks then have them buy you an air fryer, some Sonos speakers or something for that crib that will last far longer than the “relationship”
You are in your 20s. This is not the time to even be considering locking anything down.
Are your deficiencies even taken care of? Do you have good $ coming in, your body/health is on point and you are working on projects that you’re passionate about? (And blowing down trees and drinking isn’t a passion project)
As a guy who has shyt on you/clowned you disregarded you, all the while watching you time on here casually through threads, I can see your understanding has progressed, and you're at an impasse. The answer isn't anger it's acceptance. I used to feel the same way, but the truth is women don't love you for you, they love you for what you can provide them physically (fukking), emotionally (validation only but so often, gotta make them work for it), and mentally (security in having someone who can hold them down). You, Rozay Oro, guy with dreams of a music career, who ponders his existence, who has issues to work through. They don't care about that guy, because that guy in the last sentence is random dude #5602596 to them.
Again I'm a lil younger than you. That Tell Me - Groove Theory, I Just Called To Say I Love - Stevie Wonder, Lady - D'amgelo, type woman that makes you melt into the warm of your desire for her continued companionship doesn't exist. A plain old, dependable solid gf is a tough ask now as well. Women that seem to be either of the latter can appear if you pass a certain threshold in value/status, but as you know my now it's a mirage, and not predicated on Rozay.
It ain't fun, it ain't fair, but neither is life. You gotta find you own peace of mind. You're not a simp anymore, because you KNOW better, you could indulge in simp like activities, but that like a relatively smart person opting to do dumb shyt. ----> wasted potential/time/effort.
I've said it to other posters but get selfish and fall in love with self improvement and the process of self improvement. You should be looking to squeeze women in here and there as opposed to predicating your time, or your free time around them. Keep growing, and learn from mistakes, gl breh
Taking Ws in the game of life tho, not many are across demographics and I'm sure you're better off than most in your age group, silver linings breh breh
Tonight textAs a guy who has shyt on you/clowned you disregarded you, all the while watching you time on here casually through threads, I can see your understanding has progressed, and you're at an impasse. The answer isn't anger it's acceptance. I used to feel the same way, but the truth is women don't love you for you, they love you for what you can provide them physically (fukking), emotionally (validation only but so often, gotta make them work for it), and mentally (security in having someone who can hold them down). You, Rozay Oro, guy with dreams of a music career, who ponders his existence, who has issues to work through. They don't care about that guy, because that guy in the last sentence is random dude #5602596 to them.
Again I'm a lil younger than you. That Tell Me - Groove Theory, I Just Called To Say I Love - Stevie Wonder, Lady - D'amgelo, type woman that makes you melt into the warm of your desire for her continued companionship doesn't exist. A plain old, dependable solid gf is a tough ask now as well. Women that seem to be either of the latter can appear if you pass a certain threshold in value/status, but as you know my now it's a mirage, and not predicated on Rozay.
It ain't fun, it ain't fair, but neither is life. You gotta find you own peace of mind. You're not a simp anymore, because you KNOW better, you could indulge in simp like activities, but that like a relatively smart person opting to do dumb shyt. ----> wasted potential/time/effort.
I've said it to other posters but get selfish and fall in love with self improvement and the process of self improvement. You should be looking to squeeze women in here and there as opposed to predicating your time, or your free time around them. Keep growing, and learn from mistakes, gl breh
Me: ur so fine baby
Her: awww thanks babe eye hearts emoji
Me: song and some simp shyt
No reply in over an hour
Did I fukk up and can I fix it?
Why them brehs write those songs.
Thanks for the advice but I feel sad afAs a guy who has shyt on you/clowned you disregarded you, all the while watching you time on here casually through threads, I can see your understanding has progressed, and you're at an impasse. The answer isn't anger it's acceptance. I used to feel the same way, but the truth is women don't love you for you, they love you for what you can provide them physically (fukking), emotionally (validation only but so often, gotta make them work for it), and mentally (security in having someone who can hold them down). You, Rozay Oro, guy with dreams of a music career, who ponders his existence, who has issues to work through. They don't care about that guy, because that guy in the last sentence is random dude #5602596 to them.
Again I'm a lil younger than you. That Tell Me - Groove Theory, I Just Called To Say I Love - Stevie Wonder, Lady - D'amgelo, type woman that makes you melt into the warm of your desire for her continued companionship doesn't exist. A plain old, dependable solid gf is a tough ask now as well. Women that seem to be either of the latter can appear if you pass a certain threshold in value/status, but as you know my now it's a mirage, and not predicated on Rozay.
It ain't fun, it ain't fair, but neither is life. You gotta find you own peace of mind. You're not a simp anymore, because you KNOW better, you could indulge in simp like activities, but that like a relatively smart person opting to do dumb shyt. ----> wasted potential/time/effort.
I've said it to other posters but get selfish and fall in love with self improvement and the process of self improvement. You should be looking to squeeze women in here and there as opposed to predicating your time, or your free time around them. Keep growing, and learn from mistakes, gl breh
Yes and Yes. Question is why do you care to do so? Before I answer in detail, know this and read it over and over Rozay, YOU HAVE TO BE COMFORTABLE/CONTENT ALONE AS A MAN. If you don't want to end up food/getting played the previously capitalized is crucial. Quiet as kept most men haven't mastered being alone. They simply stay busy be that pursuing their purpose, a goal, multiple/other women they limit their down time spent idly alone. Sober time alone is when you can see yourself, your fukkups, your wants, and what you need to do to get them in the most clear light. You become more resourceful, as you spend time alone because you end up filling time growing either your skillset or your knowledge or even better both. This growth makes you more independent, but it also raises your standards, because as you become more comfortable alone, you'll be pickier about who you give your time to.
What you are seemingly doing (emotionally investing in minor flings) makes you prime for getting played/hurt/finessed. It also makes you more likely to end up with a baby mama, because you floor/standard for a connection will be so low that at the first half decent comes along you'll lose your mind/due too much too soon, and end up in relationship with someone you don't even love, or worse end up with a kid with someone you don't even love/like like that.
Really take them first 2 paragraphs in.
To answer, you can fix it simply by not texting the bytch for like 4-7 days. Let her hit you back. Simplest and easiest thing to do. If/when she does make say something in the vain of "Damn I haven't hit ya since I was drunk/high on (Whatever day you last message), what's up?".
Claiming impaired state makes you look less sawft than you are. Might make her wonder, what you be getting into, but at the very least you might salvage some of the leverage you gave away.
If she doesn't hit you up in a week forget about here as clearly you're not high up in her rotation. If you that pressed, after 7-10 days of waiting hit her to set up a meet lead with a time and day. ie. "You working Tuesday at 6?". The phrasing of the question almost requires an answer assuming she hasn't bushed you because it's a specific yes/no. If you get just a yes/no in response she's going/gone cold. If you get a yes/no followed by a why? All you gotta do is dangle the carrot. For me that something like "I'm having an RnR day at the Hyatt, got some edibles and I'm thinking about ordering food, but I don't fw eating alone...."
It sounds extra, but I usually take p*ssy as it presents itself as opposed to go on the offensive, so I only shoot high percentage shots. Moreover I'll plan p*ssy out (reach out to a former fukk/get new p*ssy), if I have leisure planned for an extended period or special occasion.
For example: I had a work trip that took me to the Emmy's year before last year. I knew I'd be in LA for 2 nights. So I not only planned p*ssy took a coworker up their to beat/share a room with, I went out to bars and used dating apps to ensure I'd have buns both nights. Making it that much of a shoe-in allowed me to double up both days. But 80-85% of the time I'm working, studying, grinding and won't approach/acknowledge women like that.
I'm blazed rn btw so that's the only reason you getting these drawn out answer. Long story short when it comes to hoes and life:
It was different time my guy. We in a different era. Adapt and play the game, or opt out like MGTOW folk (myself included). Again, I'll get my share of cheeks, and them some especially I go up in playing rank, but this zeitgeist isn't really built for ltr, or marriage. It can happen but you gotta be strategic, and you'll know your settling with a safe option, as opposed to that idealized proverbial soulmate, but if you want a family, that's your best bet, and it's not even a sure shot. Gotta be honest with ya self, you ain't handsome gang, most ain't, so that story book ending is just that.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Times have changed, but things are still the same.
They write those songs because they want that chit, too...but they ain’t got it (except Amel).
The same one who wrote “I Just Called To Say I Love You” also wrote “I Never Dreamed You’d Leave In Summer”.
The same ones who wrote “Lady” also wrote “You Should Be Here”.
nikka i hope you didnt really text ur so fine baby...smh..u sharing her breh..women know they look good, no need to tell them that, it does nothing for them but turns them off.