Is a man responsible for anything nowadays

[Ooh Marty]

Talkin shyt without a mention? thats a female trait...

What you mad cuz they keep it real while you cupcake?

"deez nikkas"? Why dont you address some of the nikkas you're refering to? fukk all this "yall" "this forum" "coli nikkas" "deez nikkas" sht, because i aint never seen anyone make contradicting statements like that except a couple of trolls.

 

[Sierra Mist]

man is broke and lives with his moms and is a failure no chicks wanna fukk with him and he needs to step it up

women is broke and lives with her moms nikkas still trying to hit that and nobody cares that she's a failure at life in fact she'll look down on the man in the above sample for being in the exact same situation as her.

Society allows women to do that. Women practice hypergamy and should date men with more money than them. Are we really going to shame women for wanting to be with a man with resources? In another context the men on here will complain that women keep picking nikkas that don't have their shyt together and need to raise their standards and leave the bums alone.

I will never attack a woman for wanting a man with resources. Society says that men are the protectors and providers. Men are valued on their earning potential and what they build. What legacy does the man have? What can the man do for not only his woman but what can he pass down to his children?

Women are judged by youth and beauty. Men are judged by what they do.

 

[Mountain]

I do in the threads they make, when I feel like I have some time to waste.

But more importantly, hit dogs holler

In other words you're to bytch made to mention names, I hear you. Carry on.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

CTK gonna get all the sex tips he needs after this thread. I see you breh.

*raises glass*

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[winb83]

Society allows women to do that. Women practice hypergamy and should date men with more money than them. Are we really going to shame women for wanting to be with a man with resources? In another context the men on here will complain that women keep picking nikkas that don't have their shyt together and need to raise their standards and leave the bums alone.

I will never attack a woman for wanting a man with resources. Society says that men are the protectors and providers. Men are valued on their earning potential and what they build. What legacy does the man have? What can the man do for not only his woman but what can he pass down to his children?

Women are judged by youth and beauty. Men are judged by what they do.

if a man is a failure in life "society" holds him accountable and he has to accept responsibility. he's not given a choice.

if a woman fails in life either it gets downright overlooked or she's some type of victim or an excuse is made for it. society will even step in and bail her out.

the last time i saw a homeless man standing on a corner was today in fact. i can't even recall seeing a homeless woman standing on a corner. that's not to say that there aren't homeless women its just to say that if someone saw a homeless woman on a corner they'd probably be far more sympathetic to her than a man. she probably wouldn't be on the corner nearly as long as he would.

men accept responsibility all the time. society assures they do. there's a reason your average spellchecker doesn't have the word misandry in it. even if you spell it right. Misogyny on the other hand is usually there.

 

[CrimsonTider]

man is broke and lives with his moms and is a failure no chicks wanna fukk with him and he needs to step it up

women is broke and lives with her moms nikkas still trying to hit that and nobody cares that she's a failure at life in fact she'll look down on the man in the above sample for being in the exact same situation as her.

if a man is a failure in life "society" holds him accountable and he has to accept responsibility. he's not given a choice.

if a woman fails in life either it gets downright overlooked or she's some type of victim or an excuse is made for it. society will even step in and bail her out.

the last time i saw a homeless man standing on a corner was today in fact. i can't even recall seeing a homeless woman standing on a corner. that's not to say that there aren't homeless women its just to say that if someone saw a homeless woman on a corner they'd probably be far more sympathetic to her than a man. she probably wouldn't be on the corner nearly as long as he would.

men accept responsibility all the time. society assures they do. there's a reason your average spellchecker doesn't have the word misandry in it. even if you spell it right. Misogyny on the other hand is usually there.

STRAW MAN!!!!

 

[winb83]

STRAW MAN!!!!

no its not a man is responsible for himself and he's held responsible. happens all the time hell most of the time. men don't get any sympathy.

 

[Turbulent]

Lot of pretty wild assumptions that again speak to the root of what I'm talking about.

Not every single mom knew their child's father prob wouldn't be in the picture when they met.

fact is, they still chose a dude who ended up being a deadbeat. were there signs and red flags? who knows...but chances are they have some responsibility in the fact they chose to have a child with someone who ended up becoming a deadbeat down the road.

Lot of dudes have preached that power simp "chicks only wanna fukk with bad boys" (implying chicks DON'T fukk with them because they are "good guys"), over and over to the point now that people here seem to deem it as fact. But that's not true, all or even most of the time.

i don't know if this is addressed to me but i didn't say anything about bad boys and women choosing them over simps.

And even still, by "not talking about the dads" you are giving them a pass. If you don't think something's a problem you won't talk about it.

i'm not giving them a pass at all. i said in my post that they ain't shyt. they are already considered scum. but what more can i say about them or to them? "don't be a deadbeat dad because being a deadbeat dad is bad mmkay???"

Second you're assuming every single mom is looking for sympathy/handouts. Again false. You make this leap while ignoring all the actual cries for sympathy/handouts by dudes on this forum. So you show your bias again.

they're not all looking for sympathy (although some are). i'm wrong on that one. but two clarifications i'd like to make.

-can be totally responsible, partially responsible or not responsible at all for bad stuff that happens to them (when it comes to women having children with deadbeats, i'd say it's partially responsible most of the time (yes there are exceptions))

-there's nothing wrong with having sympathy for someone even if they made a mistake and are responsible (or partially responsible for it). but if you have sympathy for someone who doesn't accept their fair share of responsibility in their misery (assuming they are partially responsible) then you are a sucker.

So even when dudes on that #fukkabytch shyt think they're being objective, they aren't. Your "objective truths" are built in a "reality" created under the premise that men are victims and women are their oppressors. I am not even saying shyt is all hunky dory for anybody- men or women- but its just wild how often dudes here seem to err on one side over the other

i think that ultimately we're all responsible for our personal happiness and it's up to us to achieve it. what you're talking about, both sides do but i guess i somewhat agree with you (it's just that you're kinda doing the same a little bit but in reverse).

 

[CrimsonTider]

no its not a man is responsible for himself and he's held responsible. happens all the time hell most of the time. men don't get any sympathy.

It's a straw man because there is no way of proving all men are held responsible and all women are never held responsible.

You created an argument out of thin air( had nothing to do with the OP really)

 

[BlackedOut]

You only get half a bar

fukk you bytch

 

[Ooh Marty]

You only get half a bar

fukk you bytch

I was just listenin to takeova

Only bytch is u tho

 

[Sierra Mist]

the females on coli are just mean though

 

[winb83]

It's a straw man because there is no way of proving all men are held responsible and all women are never held responsible.

You created an argument out of thin air( had nothing to do with the OP really)

op suggest that men aren't held responsible. i suggest that in general they are.

National Coalition for the Homeless

Most studies show that single homeless adults are more likely to be male than female. In 2007, a survey by the U.S. Conference of Mayors found that of the population surveyed 35% of the homeless people who are members of households with children are male while 65% of these people are females. However, 67.5% of the single homeless population is male, and it is this single population that makes up 76% of the homeless populations surveyed

the vast majority of the homeless are males

Statistics on Women Offenders

In 2009, the majority of the total correctional population (prison, jails, community supervision) was male (82 percent) and 18 percent was female.

most of the people in the correctional system are male.

men are responsible for themselves and we all know it because men don't get sympathy for their failures.