Is a man responsible for anything nowadays

[Ain't That Something]

Im just confused

Woman is unattractive/undesirable, she needs to step her shyt up. Man is unattractive/undesirable, women need to stop being so shallow

Woman lets herself go during marriage, its a feminist conspiracy. Man lets himself go during marriage and wife no longer finds him attractive, its a feminist conspiracy.

Woman grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, shes a waste of life. Man grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, hes a victim of circumstance.

Woman + man have a kid, the man leaves. Its the woman's fault for picking a deadbeat. Man is just who he is and can't be held responsible for his nature (even tho women don't get that luxury). But if they get married + stay together, its a feminist trap, hes in it out of fear of the courts, shes gonna leave him like women always leave yall .

So I am just trying to figure out who is responsible for what. Can we just simplify gender rules here and say women (ESPECIALLY black women) are to blame for everything, and do away w/any kind of gender based discussions? Cause from an objective POV a lot of brays here aint makin too much sense

Should I play devil advocate?

 

[Ohene]

come to think of it i've never seen a hot/fit guy that pulls hot chicks with ease complain about women. just like you won't see chicks that are cute sweet w/ something to offer complain about lack of quailty men approaching her. it just doesn't happen.

I actually have. Only thing is that we dont necessarily complain...we just take them for what they're worth and adapt.

I have a saying that goes, "Women are not crazy, theyre not stupid, theyre not snakes etc. they're just women."

I dont get the most girls cause I dont put too much effort in. Taken now anyways, but I know dudes who have bytches upon bytches and will still say the same shyt that your average coli dude does. Not your EXTREME coli dude ala Reincar ...but the average dude yes. You think Chris Brown when he's with the homies doesnt talk any shyt about women ?


Come on home girl, you know better.

 

[Will Ross]

Plenty of men that hate women get a lot of p*ssy and plenty of men that love women don't get any.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Should I play devil advocate?

Naw, theres about 200 dudes on here who do that for you day and day out

This forum even has a "fukk a bytch" moderator

 

[Ohene]

Plenty of men that hate women get a lot of p*ssy and plenty of men that love women don't get any.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Naw, theres about 200 dudes on here who do that for you day and day out

This forum even has a "fukk a bytch" moderator

Breh I have always called for personal responsibility in my post! Don't count me in the he man woman haters club!

 

[Julius Skrrvin]

Plenty of men that hate women get a lot of p*ssy and plenty of men that love women don't get any.

It's not about 'loving women' just about treating them equally, not holding them to double standards. Thats all it is. People think that its about supporting something to get something in return (i see that fakkit ass john goodman implying that) but surprisingly enough people do support things without self interest in mind. I just view it as an injustice. It's has nothing to do with being a 'feminist' or 'loving women'.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Breh I have always called for personal responsibility in my post! Don't count me in the he man woman haters club!

I mean if you see what the game is you realize there's no need to play devil's advocate. There's nothing logical about blaming women for every problem in the world........ you know what time it is.................

 

[BlackedOut]

Talkin shyt without a mention? thats a female trait...

What you mad cuz they keep it real while you cupcake?

 

[Ain't That Something]

I mean if you see what the game is you realize there's no need to play devil's advocate. There's nothing logical about blaming women for every problem in the world........ you know what time it is.................

Because you doing the same shyt you accuse these nikkas are doing! The truth lies in the middle.

 

[Binary]

Yup. I walk everywhere which means I have to hold all my groceries and shyt like that. Im not afraid to get my hands dirty.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Plenty of men that hate women get a lot of p*ssy and plenty of men that love women don't get any.

....They need to really soak that up.Let it absorb

 

[Turbulent]

Woman is unattractive/undesirable, she needs to step her shyt up. Man is unattractive/undesirable, women need to stop being so shallow

i agree with you on this. let people choose what they choose.

Woman lets herself go during marriage, its a feminist conspiracy. Man lets himself go during marriage and wife no longer finds him attractive, its a feminist conspiracy.

i honestly don't remember anyone here saying something like this.

Woman grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, shes a waste of life. Man grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, hes a victim of circumstance.

both genders in this scenario are victims and responsible at the same time. They're victims because they've been stuck in the matrix for so long. they're responsible because a lot of them chose the blue pill when offered the choice. at some point you have to take responsibility for your choices in life even if you had less opportunities than others.

Woman + man have a kid, the man leaves. Its the woman's fault for picking a deadbeat. Man is just who he is and can't be held responsible for his nature (even tho women don't get that luxury). But if they get married + stay together, its a feminist trap, hes in it out of fear of the courts, shes gonna leave him like women always leave yall .

she did choose a deadbeat. yes he's also responsible but i don't think anyone is praising the deadbeat. the difference is that it's hard to shame someone who has no shame to begin with. no point in focusing on him. he's not making any excuses. he already knows he ain't shyt. the girl in your scenario however wants sympathy and doesn't accept her responsibility in her misery.

as far as marriage, i don't know if it's a conspiracy or what. what i do know is that the police and judicial system is biased in the favor of women. and i also don't see the point of marriage in general. but if people want to get married



at the end of the day you choose what you want out of life and decide your terms. you can't force anyone to do anything just like other people can't force you to do anything.

 

[Gus Money]

I notice a lot of coli dudes just have an obvious hatred for women so it only makes sense for them to dump all responsibility/problems on women.

It really discourages me reading some of the posts

Don't take the negative comments too seriously, you've got to look at the whole picture. Yeah, some dudes on here constantly blame women for their own problems, but they are a small population of posters overall. Those dudes aren't taken seriously for the most part.

It only seems like there are more because they're the most vocal about it (and I'm not talking about the dudes in that "Gems" thread because, from what I've seen, they mostly focus on self-improvement).

 

[Sierra Mist]

Women are not to blame for everything wrong with the world.
Woman are not infallible beings who can do no wrong at all.


See how basic that shyt is?