Is a man responsible for anything nowadays

[Tony_Siegel]

I don't think any of us can call it on who's to blame for the current state of anybody's personal life and the cumulative outcomes of all of their personal relationships.

What I mean is when you speak to anyone "in shape", well paid $, etc. etc. you can't assume or take any of their expressed outward emotions at face value.

Even if they are not complaining or speaking about their relationships at the moment, it doesn't mean that they don't have problems or gripes with the opposite sex (this may also apply if they have no problems meeting people and sustaining "meaningful relationships").

We all have problems that we choose to express or keep within...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

she did choose a deadbeat. yes he's also responsible but i don't think anyone is praising the deadbeat. the difference is that it's hard to shame someone who has no shame to begin with. no point in focusing on him. he's not making any excuses. he already knows he ain't shyt. the girl in your scenario however wants sympathy and doesn't accept her responsibility in her misery.

Lot of pretty wild assumptions that again speak to the root of what I'm talking about.

Not every single mom knew their child's father prob wouldn't be in the picture when they met. Lot of dudes have preached that power simp "chicks only wanna fukk with bad boys" (implying chicks DON'T fukk with them because they are "good guys"), over and over to the point now that people here seem to deem it as fact. But that's not true, all or even most of the time. And even still, by "not talking about the dads" you are giving them a pass. If you don't think something's a problem you won't talk about it.

Second you're assuming every single mom is looking for sympathy/handouts. Again false. You make this leap while ignoring all the actual cries for sympathy/handouts by dudes on this forum. So you show your bias again.

So even when dudes on that #fukkabytch shyt think they're being objective, they aren't. Your "objective truths" are built in a "reality" created under the premise that men are victims and women are their oppressors. I am not even saying shyt is all hunky dory for anybody- men or women- but its just wild how often dudes here seem to err on one side over the other

 

[CrimsonTider]

Another thing I don't understand.

How are a majority of the threads made in this forum are "anti women", "women aint shyt" threads

but, let a woman make a thread about anything it going 15 pages automatically.

It just doesn't add up to me.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I don't think any of us can call it on who's to blame for the current state of anybody's personal life and the cumulative outcomes of all of their personal relationships.

What I mean is when you speak to anyone "in shape", well paid $, etc. etc. you can't assume or take any of their expressed outward emotions at face value.

Even if they are not complaining or speaking about their relationships at the moment, it doesn't mean that they don't have problems or gripes with the opposite sex (this may also apply if they have no problems meeting people and sustaining "meaningful relationships").

We all have problems that we choose to express or keep within...

I think its fair to say when someone constantly blames their problems or society's problems on some other group or outside entity, they are a much bigger part of the problem than they either can admit to or realize. First step to solving a problem is acknowledging your role in it.

 

[Kenny West]

So from what I could gather, the OP complaining about the pro male double standards.

Even though there are plenty of pro female double standards. We discuss them quite often on this forum.

Neither side is willing to let go of the gender role advantages they have doe. (dudes gettin to fukk a lot, women getting away with pretty much anything besides being a hoe) They just want their hindering ones absolved.

Sooo that leaves us with one solution:








Deal with it

 

[Mountain]

Deesz nikkas think their double standards are logical tho

And then they wanna complain about society feminizing them? How can society be run by women when men are the architects of gender based moral code?

Im just confused

Woman is unattractive/undesirable, she needs to step her shyt up. Man is unattractive/undesirable, women need to stop being so shallow

Woman lets herself go during marriage, its a feminist conspiracy. Man lets himself go during marriage and wife no longer finds him attractive, its a feminist conspiracy.

Woman grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, shes a waste of life. Man grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, hes a victim of circumstance.

Woman + man have a kid, the man leaves. Its the woman's fault for picking a deadbeat. Man is just who he is and can't be held responsible for his nature (even tho women don't get that luxury). But if they get married + stay together, its a feminist trap, hes in it out of fear of the courts, shes gonna leave him like women always leave yall .

So I am just trying to figure out who is responsible for what. Can we just simplify gender rules here and say women (ESPECIALLY black women) are to blame for everything, and do away w/any kind of gender based discussions?Cause from an objective POV a lot of brays here aint makin too much sense

"deez nikkas"? Why dont you address some of the nikkas you're refering to? fukk all this "yall" "this forum" "coli nikkas" "deez nikkas" sht, because i aint never seen anyone make contradicting statements like that except a couple of trolls.

 

[the cac mamba]

I hate all you Coli women equally

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

"deez nikkas"? Why dont you address some of the nikkas you're refering to? fukk all this "yall" "this forum" "coli nikkas" "deez nikkas" sht, because i aint never seen anyone make contradicting statements like that except a couple of trolls.

I do in the threads they make, when I feel like I have some time to waste.

But more importantly, hit dogs holler

 

[Ooh Marty]

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Another thing I don't understand.

How are a majority of the threads made in this forum are "anti women", "women aint shyt" threads

but, let a woman make a thread about anything it going 15 pages automatically.

It just doesn't add up to me.

im a prime example

nikkas sit on here and blast wmn 24 7 and brag abt the fukkd up shyt they do to wmn but when I made a thread abt thirsty men blowing up my phn that I just met im called an aint shyt bytch and im going to be single forever

 

[Lavish]

lets not act like women dont have double standards and blame men.

 

[MikelArteta]

nikka go pm jemadore on how to please your fat obese wife

 

[winb83]

Im just confused

Woman is unattractive/undesirable, she needs to step her shyt up. Man is unattractive/undesirable, women need to stop being so shallow

Woman lets herself go during marriage, its a feminist conspiracy. Man lets himself go during marriage and wife no longer finds him attractive, its a feminist conspiracy.

Woman grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, shes a waste of life. Man grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, hes a victim of circumstance.

Woman + man have a kid, the man leaves. Its the woman's fault for picking a deadbeat. Man is just who he is and can't be held responsible for his nature (even tho women don't get that luxury). But if they get married + stay together, its a feminist trap, hes in it out of fear of the courts, shes gonna leave him like women always leave yall .

So I am just trying to figure out who is responsible for what. Can we just simplify gender rules here and say women (ESPECIALLY black women) are to blame for everything, and do away w/any kind of gender based discussions? Cause from an objective POV a lot of brays here aint makin too much sense

man is broke and lives with his moms and is a failure no chicks wanna fukk with him and he needs to step it up

women is broke and lives with her moms nikkas still trying to hit that and nobody cares that she's a failure at life in fact she'll look down on the man in the above sample for being in the exact same situation as her.

 

[Pool_Shark]

I don't get the hate for women that exist all over the internet (it's not just this site)

They really get to some people. I just think of them like little kids. They do dumb shyt, say dumb shyt, act dumb. Men do dumbass things to but in different ways. I don't hold females to some high standards just brush it all off. People really just wake up every morning with a strong hate for p*ssy when really it's not complicated. The fukk do I look like bytching and moaning about females like a female.

 

[TheNig]

see thats what nikkas get for tryna impress hoes to begin with. if you aint doing it for yourself then you already fukked up.

nikkas blame bytches, bytches blame nikkas.

 

[Tony_Siegel]

I think its fair to say when someone constantly blames their problems or society's problems on some other group or outside entity, they are a much bigger part of the problem than they either can admit to or realize. First step to solving a problem is acknowledging your role in it.

You have to be a strong person to acknowledge and announce your own flaws to others...

And if you can find an equally strong person to accept your flaws and not consider you weak because of em...

:Slippy:

"I'm a manchild born in the promised land
Captain of my destiny, guidin my faith through the turbulence of life
See, in order to be who you are, you've got to know who you are
In order to get to where you want to go,
you've got to know from where you came
Say, it was Malcolm X who said,
"A man who doesn't have nothin to stand up for
will fall for any god damn thing!"​