Incest In The Black Community: The Hidden Secret

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I know it happens to boys too, I said that earlier.

If we really want to talk about the issue we need to address all the women that allow that shyt to go on to keep a man
or all the lonely women that take advantage of young men. A lot of issues are place on black men alone and black women wonder why we don't support anything you do.
because for years your mistakes have been hidden.
 

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I think because I'm a female, women are more open with me so I 'm able to hear about it a lot more. It happens just as much as any other group, breh. You would be shocked. I know just as many white females dealing with it as black females. You guys have to stop looking at it as an attack on black men, that's the only reason why you guys refuse to see it because you see it as someone shytting on black men, downplaying it is just as bad as ignoring it. Most abusers abuse multiple people, so it could be 1 or 2 people in one family doing it.
Im not speaking on this in defense of or as an attack on black men. I also have said multiple times that I believe it to be true that it happens in the black community as well so please don't lump me into a "you guys" generalization.
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Talking about it doesn't mean that were making it seem like all black men do it, not talking about it just protects the people that are doing it. No one is saying all black men do it. It's sad that whenever the topic is brought up everyone jumps up to silence it. There are so many black females (and males) dealing with it but no one is allowed to talk about it.
men shouldn't be so defensive about this when they were potential victims as well
it happened to this dude I know...it really fukked his life up
like, completely screwed it up...
 
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I will say this, watch your young daughters around their hormonal older cousins. Whether they mean it as molestation or not, sometimes younger female relatives are the subject of sexual experimentation when the boy can't experiment with girls his own age. You can take heed to that or not. It's your choice (they are your children).

If black men have similar experiences with older relatives then they should speak on it because it's not something I can speak to.
yes!!
and aside from race and incest, screen the shyt out of your baby sitters!!!!
 

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i know a dude that was fukking his lil 9 year old sister in the ass for years... before she told. He still lived in my old hood......... and is a family man now - you'd never expect him. :leostare:
i know plenty of black women who brother, uncles etc have had sex with them or touched them.

there is an org here that deals with this near me ---Believe it or not........ some of the girls who have been raped by their fathers or stepfathers actually want to leave the center... they want to go home because they Believe they liked it. Its the only form of so called love they ever received. :manny::scust:


Women allow it or cover it up in about 80% of the cases. If Black women took a real stand then issue solved. Because the courts and society really doesn't give a fukk.
 

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Talking about it doesn't mean that were making it seem like all black men do it, not talking about it just protects the people that are doing it. No one is saying all black men do it. It's sad that whenever the topic is brought up everyone jumps up to silence it. There are so many black females (and males) dealing with it but no one is allowed to talk about it.
why don't girls speak on it?

Think really hard on why over 60% feel they can't mention it to their mothers........
Did you know that in over 80% of the cases the mothers either set it up, ignored signes, or covered it up?

Men are pervs in any situation -- but less than 5% of men are doing 100% of the rapes and incest type shyt. repeat offenders.....

Don't you think WOMEN are the ones who need to do a better job? How about the cases where men are with 3 different women with kids and sticks his dikk in 3 different womens kids? that shyts nuts.
 
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i know a dude that was fukking his lil 9 year old sister in the ass for years... before she told. He still lived in my old hood......... and is a family man now - you'd never expect him. :leostare:
i know plenty of black women who brother, uncles etc have had sex with them or touched them.

there is an org here that deals with this near me ---Believe it or not........ some of the girls who have been raped by their fathers or stepfathers actually want to leave the center... they want to go home because they Believe they liked it. Its the only form of so called love they ever received. :manny::scust:


Women allow it or cover it up in about 80% of the cases. If Black women took a real stand then issue solved. Because the courts and society really doesn't give a fukk.
thought the underlined was a link to statistics or conviction data or something :snoop:
this isn't the topic for the blame game, reel it in :comeon:
when people point fingers, both sides put their effort into proving why its not their fault and the shyt that goes on is too damaging to CHILDREN to find out which sex holds most of the blame
 

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why don't girls speak on it?

Think really hard on why over 60% feel they can't mention it to their mothers........
Did you know that in over 80% of the cases the mothers either set it up, ignored signes, or covered it up?


Men are pervs in any situation -- but less than 5% of men are doing 100% of the rapes and incest type shyt. repeat offenders.....

Don't you think WOMEN are the ones who need to do a better job? How about the cases where men are with 3 different women with kids and sticks his dikk in 3 different womens kids? that shyts nuts.
you pretty much answered your own question.
 

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thought the underlined was a link to statistics or conviction data or something :snoop:
this isn't the topic for the blame game, reel it in :comeon:
when people point fingers, both sides put their effort into proving why its not their fault and the shyt that goes on is too damaging to CHILDREN to find out which sex holds most of the blame
oh, it's not pointing fingers because perv men shouldn't do this regardless of opportunity.

I'm just saying...... when i hear people talk.... there are some things to consider.
 

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why don't girls speak on it?

Think really hard on why over 60% feel they can't mention it to their mothers........
Did you know that in over 80% of the cases the mothers either set it up, ignored signes, or covered it up?

Men are pervs in any situation -- but less than 5% of men are doing 100% of the rapes and incest type shyt. repeat offenders.....

Don't you think WOMEN are the ones who need to do a better job? How about the cases where men are with 3 different women with kids and sticks his dikk in 3 different womens kids? that shyts nuts.

When a cop kills a black man, and the white community brings up all the things the black man and the black community could have done to prevent that (going to school, getting a job and all the perfect things in life that are just so easy when you're black and probably poor), instead of just placing blame where it's due, on the person who is sick enough to kill, do you say these same things?
 
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