Incest In The Black Community: The Hidden Secret

Ashley Banks

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What happened in Dallas is disgusting and revolting but it doesn't pertain to an entire community, you guys come in here spouting about "this being a problem with black men" we have a lot of shyt thrown our way without idiots attempting to throw more shade our way.

and this is exactly why it will continue to happen.

but honestly who cares about what happens to black women all that matters is another thing doesn't get thrown black men's way. we don't matter.
 

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What happened in Dallas is disgusting and revolting but it doesn't pertain to an entire community, you guys come in here spouting about "this being a problem with black men" we have a lot of shyt thrown our way without idiots attempting to throw more shade our way.

Negroe are you crazy.......:what: The shyt in Dallas is something that JUST HAPPENED to be caught and exposed........breh don't do this on this topic. Yea we going through a lot and targeted, but right is right and wrong is wrong breh. I don't go soft on no Bull shyt, rather its a bro or a female, bad apples and the degenerate gots to go breh........:camby:
 

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Remember seeing this on Netflix...crazy stuff

 

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lol it's ok.

I don't mean in comparison to other groups, I'd say it's about the same. The only reason why people don't think it is, is because the victims are constantly told not to talk about it.

I mean a lot as in, many black women are victims of incest. Just talk to a few of your female friends/family members and you'll see.
Ok. I disagree that it happens as often as the group we know to perpetrate this kind of action most often. I just don't believe that to be the case. Again, thats not to say that this never happens in the black community either. I do believe it happens more often than people realize because of what you said, brushing it under the rug. But that is not unique to race, it is universal to the act and will not alter numbers generally per group.

I know this does happen because I do take a special active interest in all the women in my life, friends and family alike. But as much as the other group? I cant agree. I guess it bothers me how you word it due to how I quantify the words "plenty, many, a lot..." in comparison to the entirety. Its hard for me to recognize and agree with something I DO agree with you on, when I look at the numeric value of those words differently than you (or most). I would speak directly about what I believe it to be such as "1 out of every..." as to not muddy the waters with subjective words. I DO agree it happens in the black community though and more often then most would like to believe.
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and this is exactly why it will continue to happen.

but honestly who cares about what happens to black women all that matters is another thing doesn't get thrown black men's way. we don't matter.

Why segregate? What kind of mindset do you have? To me black is black and like I stated what occurred is beyond a tragedy. I care about black males and females but to go on like all black males are engaging in this on a regular is wrong. It is a discussion that needs to be discussed in the community but it's not a case of every black male is out there fiddling some relative.
 

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shyt is disgusting:scust:

2 stars though,dudes dont like to hear/see the truth:francis:,sadly
 

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there was 2 incest incidents in my fam. the first incident was pretty much swept under the rug because of my auntie. she's still with that bum ass dude even had another kid with that piece of shyt. the 2nd incident involved another family member and she wasn't having it and had the offender arrested.
 

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This is a very nasty secret in our communities. My wife is an admistrator but when she was a teacher it was scary how many preteen/teenage girls were molested/raped by uncles, cousins, stepdads, dads. It's a dirty game and this has happened to boys too. I think sometimes when we feel a collective powerlessness we take it out on those closest to us. Sex as a weapon of fear, or using our family members as objects of desire when there is nothing else out there.

So we're just gonna pretend De La didn't make this song.

 
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