I would say not often about sex. Sometimes, it is. For example, many pedophiles fetishize innocence. The might've lost theirs prematurely and develop a desire and attraction to other's innocence.
I agree
I would say not often about sex. Sometimes, it is. For example, many pedophiles fetishize innocence. The might've lost theirs prematurely and develop a desire and attraction to other's innocence.
Sexual abuse is not about sex it's about power.
It's sad because they will refuse to talk about it because it makes black men "look bad" but they don't realize that they're just making it easier to do it and get away with it because no one will want to talk about it.
@Juicy Most of my dudes have lost their virginity to an adult female caretaker.
Exactly, this whole "look bad" dynamic is some deep rooted Jody and Momma bullshyt where the men are allowed to stay in a mentally stunted mindset along with women being punished for being legitimate victims....
So that isn't demonizing the majority of black men? You are assuming that average black person knows multiple black men who molest their own family. This is a not black male issue this is a human issue (male and female). Your post ignore the tons of black women and other races of people who commit that disgusting crime. It sure looks like you want to turn this into a blame game ( at the exspense of black men) instead of coming up with solutions.
Your right I can't tell you what to talk about.I don't know you or your heart. It is just odd to me that a person who is going to marry Arab and have non-black children cares so much. You or your kids won't be around black men so you shouldn't be scared that a black man is going to molest them. You are coming off like one of those black women on the internet who only date out and complain that black men aren't shyt. I don't take people who date out serious on black issues You made your choice, stick with it. You should worry about the Arab community since you gave up your spot in the black one.
Don't change your tune now. All your post in the beginning of this thread is only about black men and you know that. You only started saying "men and women" after people called you out on it.
give it up, you have no argument. Stop trying to start shyt.
I was 16, lost my virginity to a 38 year old woman. I don't know HOW to feel bad about it. I doubt my homies understand HOW. You have to learn how to feel certain things later on in life when you're outside of your normal environment sometimes. My dude saved the newspaper clippings from when he got caught fukking around with his teacher...a white jawn. She was buying him J's and letting him borrow her car...What lil nikka wouldn't enjoy that? I know it's wrong now but put yourself in a teenage dude's mind and you'll understand...Neither of us lived with our parents. shyt was just wild life.I notice a lot of guys lose their virginity that way and some of them talk about it like it's nothing and I'm just like " you know you were raped, right?"