Incel does experiment with cac who states he has criminal record beating women and still gets 800 matches + dates

[Professor Emeritus]

I'm just going to mass-post some more scientific studies, because people are posting too much on their feelings rather than any real data.


1. Attractiveness is subjective, and often changes based on spending more time around someone:

"Some people appear more attractive to a potential mate over time, perhaps because their inner qualities have had a chance to shine, according to a new study published recently in Psychological Science.

"Our results indicate that perceptions of beauty in a romantic partner might change with time, as individuals get to know one another better before they start dating," said the study's lead researcher, Lucy Hunt of the University of Texas at Austin.

Over time, factors such as compatibility can make that person appealing in ways that outshine more easily observable characteristics such as physical attractiveness, she said. "Or perhaps another person might actually become more attractive in the eyes of the beholder by virtue of these other factors," she added in a journal news release."

Attraction Can Grow With Time Spent Together

MONDAY, July 6, 2015 (HealthDay News) -- The best-looking guys usually land the prettiest girls, but knowing people before dating them might help level the roma

www.healthday.com

According to Ravi Thiruchselvam, a self-perception researcher at the University of Toronto, several factors could be at play. In terms of physical appearance, research has found that the more times we’re shown a face, the more attractive it becomes, although attractive physical traits vary from person to person. What you think is attractive could be totally different than that of your best friend. Beauty is very personal. But when we do find someone attractive it’s the result of the brain’s reward circuitry, driven by the nucleus accumbens, a key structure involved in the brain’s motivational and emotional responses. “The activity in the nucleus accumbens may distinguish romantic partners from unfamiliar potential mates,” he says.

Why Are People More Attractive the Longer You Know Them?

Looks aren't everything. When it comes to a healthy, long-lasting relationship, personality is the most attractive feature.

www.discovermagazine.com

"A study has found that who we find attractive is most strongly influenced by our life experiences, such as the kind of faces you are exposed to and the relationships you form. For example, having a positive relationship with someone may have you subconsciously pairing their facial characteristics with positive information. Subsequently, people who look similar to them become more attractive to you as well.

Research also suggests that familiarity and exposure to certain faces increases their attractiveness. That means you may prefer faces that are similar to those you're more familiar with, and tend to judge a face that is very different from faces you've previously seen as less attractive."

The Science Behind Why We Fall in Love

Do you believe in love at first sight? OK, how about love at first smell? Read on to discover the science behind falling in love this Valentine’s Day.

www.mountelizabeth.com.sg

2. The longer you know each other, the less important it becomes to be similar in objective (to outside observer) physical attractiveness.

"A study of 167 couples included measures of how long partners had known each other before dating and whether they had been friends before dating, as well as coders’ ratings of physical attractiveness. As predicted, couples revealed stronger evidence of assortative mating to the extent that they knew each other for a short time and were not friends before initiating a romantic relationship."

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797615579273

3. Physical attractiveness is heavily influenced by factors somewhat under your control:


"In a 1997 study by Mehrabian and Blum, research found that the most attractive qualities in a person came down to self-care. The two researchers surveyed 117 male and female university students with 76 different photos of the opposite sex and asked them to rank their attractiveness and corresponding emotional responses. The most "attractive" features came down to good posture, noticeable grooming, nice-fitting clothing, a seemingly positive attitude, and a healthy weight."

What to Know About the Psychology of Attraction—Plus, 7 Ways to Use It to Your Advantage When Dating

Have you ever wondered what draws one person to another? Here, learn all about the psychology of attraction, including expert-approved tips on how to put it to good use when dating.

www.brides.com

Physical appearance, attractiveness, and the mediating role of emotions - Current Psychology

Determinants of physical attractiveness were investigated in a study employing U.S. college students of both genders. Five factors were derived from a study of 37 stable and changeable physical features: Masculinity (strength, larger body and chest, broader chin), Femininity (longer hair...

link.springer.com

"According to one study, it's more important to have a healthy BMI. Apparently, men find women with a BMI of 18 – 20 most attractive, as it indicates both good health and fertility.

Meanwhile, women are subconsciously looking for a man with body fat of around 12% – probably because too high body fat is associated with a range of negative health implications, including heart disease, diabetes and reduced fertility."

The Science Behind Why We Fall in Love

Do you believe in love at first sight? OK, how about love at first smell? Read on to discover the science behind falling in love this Valentine’s Day.

www.mountelizabeth.com.sg

 

[Taadow]

They haven't been duped, they just don't know how to play the game.

Then they have been duped, because they don’t know they’re playing a game.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

The stats I already published say that 37% of men believe their partner is more attractive than them, and marriages where the woman is percieved as more attractive than the man are happier and more stable over the long run. So if women are just "tolerating" these men and can't develop attraction to them, how do you explain that?

I'm also struggling to see what your solution is to your claimed scenario.

It means they want stability, have children, want to keep their family together, but hate having sex with them. And you’re admitting it’s fine for men to want a partner they find attractive, but women should only care about personality. Those particular women COULD be attracted to those men, and those men could have let themselves go over time. I’ve seen plenty of couples who look mismatched, but I see their wedding pics, and they looked more equal. Most people date on the same level of appearance. There just aren’t enough attractive, marriage minded men to go around, women want to settle down, so they settle.

Again, google it, and read the actual questions and replies from people, not studies and polls.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

Again, google it, and read the actual questions and replies from people, not studies and polls.

"You need to pay more attention to random anecdotes that confirm your bias, not objective data." - TheColi.com

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I'm just going to mass-post some more scientific studies, because people are posting too much on their feelings rather than any real data.


1. Attractiveness is subjective, and often changes based on spending more time around someone:

"Some people appear more attractive to a potential mate over time, perhaps because their inner qualities have had a chance to shine, according to a new study published recently in Psychological Science.

"Our results indicate that perceptions of beauty in a romantic partner might change with time, as individuals get to know one another better before they start dating," said the study's lead researcher, Lucy Hunt of the University of Texas at Austin.

Over time, factors such as compatibility can make that person appealing in ways that outshine more easily observable characteristics such as physical attractiveness, she said. "Or perhaps another person might actually become more attractive in the eyes of the beholder by virtue of these other factors," she added in a journal news release."

Attraction Can Grow With Time Spent Together

MONDAY, July 6, 2015 (HealthDay News) -- The best-looking guys usually land the prettiest girls, but knowing people before dating them might help level the roma

www.healthday.com

According to Ravi Thiruchselvam, a self-perception researcher at the University of Toronto, several factors could be at play. In terms of physical appearance, research has found that the more times we’re shown a face, the more attractive it becomes, although attractive physical traits vary from person to person. What you think is attractive could be totally different than that of your best friend. Beauty is very personal. But when we do find someone attractive it’s the result of the brain’s reward circuitry, driven by the nucleus accumbens, a key structure involved in the brain’s motivational and emotional responses. “The activity in the nucleus accumbens may distinguish romantic partners from unfamiliar potential mates,” he says.

Why Are People More Attractive the Longer You Know Them?

Looks aren't everything. When it comes to a healthy, long-lasting relationship, personality is the most attractive feature.

www.discovermagazine.com

"A study has found that who we find attractive is most strongly influenced by our life experiences, such as the kind of faces you are exposed to and the relationships you form. For example, having a positive relationship with someone may have you subconsciously pairing their facial characteristics with positive information. Subsequently, people who look similar to them become more attractive to you as well.

Research also suggests that familiarity and exposure to certain faces increases their attractiveness. That means you may prefer faces that are similar to those you're more familiar with, and tend to judge a face that is very different from faces you've previously seen as less attractive."

The Science Behind Why We Fall in Love

Do you believe in love at first sight? OK, how about love at first smell? Read on to discover the science behind falling in love this Valentine’s Day.

www.mountelizabeth.com.sg

2. The longer you know each other, the less important it becomes to be similar in objective (to outside observer) physical attractiveness.

"A study of 167 couples included measures of how long partners had known each other before dating and whether they had been friends before dating, as well as coders’ ratings of physical attractiveness. As predicted, couples revealed stronger evidence of assortative mating to the extent that they knew each other for a short time and were not friends before initiating a romantic relationship."

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797615579273

3. Physical attractiveness is heavily influenced by factors somewhat under your control:


"In a 1997 study by Mehrabian and Blum, research found that the most attractive qualities in a person came down to self-care. The two researchers surveyed 117 male and female university students with 76 different photos of the opposite sex and asked them to rank their attractiveness and corresponding emotional responses. The most "attractive" features came down to good posture, noticeable grooming, nice-fitting clothing, a seemingly positive attitude, and a healthy weight."

What to Know About the Psychology of Attraction—Plus, 7 Ways to Use It to Your Advantage When Dating

Have you ever wondered what draws one person to another? Here, learn all about the psychology of attraction, including expert-approved tips on how to put it to good use when dating.

www.brides.com

Physical appearance, attractiveness, and the mediating role of emotions - Current Psychology

Determinants of physical attractiveness were investigated in a study employing U.S. college students of both genders. Five factors were derived from a study of 37 stable and changeable physical features: Masculinity (strength, larger body and chest, broader chin), Femininity (longer hair...

link.springer.com

"According to one study, it's more important to have a healthy BMI. Apparently, men find women with a BMI of 18 – 20 most attractive, as it indicates both good health and fertility.

Meanwhile, women are subconsciously looking for a man with body fat of around 12% – probably because too high body fat is associated with a range of negative health implications, including heart disease, diabetes and reduced fertility."

The Science Behind Why We Fall in Love

Do you believe in love at first sight? OK, how about love at first smell? Read on to discover the science behind falling in love this Valentine’s Day.

www.mountelizabeth.com.sg

So how long should a woman have sex with a man before she decides the attraction isn’t going to develop? 20 years?

 

[Professor Emeritus]

So how long should a woman have sex with a man before she decides the attraction isn’t going to develop? 20 years?

If you had actually read the studies, you would have seen that it often starts long before the sexual part of the relationship. The mere fact of spending more time around a person, seeing their face more often, getting to know them, finding your shared interests and values, etc. makes you more physically attracted to them over time. That's why couples who were friends before dating tend to differ more in physical attractiveness (from an outside perspective) than couples who didn't know each other before dating.


And you should marry based on what you believe now, not what you think you'll believe in the future. If you're superficial enough that you don't think your boyfriend is physically attractive enough to be "marriage material", then don't marry him. But if you feel that you want to marry him right now despite being more attractive than he is because you love the other things so much, then it's likely that he'll continue to become more attractive over time so long as the other parts of your relationship are strong.

 

[Insensitive]

Tbh.

For anyone in this thread going back and forth with someone about what women are or aren't attracted to (in defense of their own mediocrity).
I think you should seriously consider if this person goes to the gym five days a week (I won't say the six like I do).

And for those people:
If you don't regularly exercise and you don't have any kind of upkeep on yourself (How do you dress? How is your grooming?
Are your gums purple bro? Keep it real with your fukking self.)
You should stop worrying about women and give yourself a hard, I mean a fukking HARD look in the mirror and be fukking honest.
Especially if you spend copious amounts of time in JBO or looking at Popstars/IG Models/OF Models or consuming/watching/reading
"Red Pill" content.

If you "Took the red pill" and you know that being the best man, you can possibly be can (and will) result in women,
then why the fukk are you sitting on a message board arguing YOUR TRUTH for dozens of pages instead of focusing on self-actualization?


Again, be fukking real with yourself.

No one on here can look at YOU and be real about YOU other than YOU.

Take a list.
Go over your income.
Go over your education.
Go over your waistline.
Go over all of that.
If you can't face it, you aren't fukking ready.
So stick to watching porn and posting about how you get no women.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

"You need to pay more attention to random anecdotes that confirm your bias, not objective data." - TheColi.com

This woman looks better than this man. But this man would probably be considered attractive to other women. This is what those studies are talking about.

THIS is NOT what those studies are talking about, and this is what incels think they are entitled to, and this doesn’t happen unless the man has money.

Most average looking men are with average looking women

 

[Red Money]

See, you guys always come up with these farfetched hypotheticals, even when there's plenty of proof that goes against it.

This incel is showing you PROOF of looks mattering. Not once have any of you liars showed ANY proof for your claims.

Yeah, there are jobless men with multiple baby mothers, but let's be honest about how they look compared to their baby mothers.

You lying ass nikkas will say shyt like "I know a broke guy who is 5'2" and looks like Jabba the Hutt and he always smashes dimes"

I'm like no wonder these incels are angry. People tell them bullshyt like this.

The former New England Patriots coach, 72, began seeing Hudson, 24, in early 2023 after his split from Linda Holliday, his girlfriend of 16 years. Hudson, who is 48 years younger than Belichick, is a former Bridgewater State University cheerleader.

Who Is Bill Belichick's Girlfriend? All About Jordon Hudson

Bill Belichick and his girlfriend, Jordon Hudson, have been dating since 2023. Here’s everything to know about the former New England Patriots coach's younger girlfriend.

people.com

That's a cute girl....Bill out of shape and 72. He's beating out young dudes and young pro athletes with millions that she could choose from. How can this be explained? Why old Bill over a young Joe Burrow?

 

[Red Money]

This woman looks better than this man. But this man would probably be considered attractive to other women. This is what those studies are talking about.







THIS is NOT what those studies are talking about, and this is what incels think they are entitled to, and this doesn’t happen unless the man has money.

She has no t&a. Other girls you posted are more endowed so it's equal attraction with their average or less than average faces.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I like how I post a wall of studies and actual statements from experts on the subject, so he responds with random pictures off the internet then adds his own made-up opinion.

This woman looks better than this man. But this man would probably be considered attractive to other women. This is what those studies are talking about.

No, and more proof you didn't read the studies at all. The comparison (in terms of that last page of studies) was made in terms of how they related compared to other men. Men who are less attractive compared to other men than their romantic partner is compared to other women are more likely to get into that relationship if they were friends for a significant time before marriage, and more likely to appear attractive to their mate, despite their "lower attractiveness" to outside observers, if they and their partner have a lot of other things in common and spend more and more time together.

Why are you ignoring all of the things the studies actually say about attraction changing over time, and primarily being based on factors the man has control over?

And I have no idea why you randomly ran to age gaps, but yes, older men are much more likely to be seen as attractive to women than older women are to men, and money is not neccessary for that dynamic. Studies have shown repeatedly that men don't need to be young to be viewed as attractive. We all know examples of older men who don't have money and still pull younger women simply because they're more mature and confident and have more experience in life.

 

[semicko82]

Tbh.

For anyone in this thread going back and forth with someone about what women are or aren't attracted to (in defense of their own mediocrity).
I think you should seriously consider if this person goes to the gym five days a week (I won't say the six like I do).

And for those people:
If you don't regularly exercise and you don't have any kind of upkeep on yourself (How do you dress? How is your grooming?
Are your gums purple bro? Keep it real with your fukking self.)
You should stop worrying about women and give yourself a hard, I mean a fukking HARD look in the mirror and be fukking honest.
Especially if you spend copious amounts of time in JBO or looking at Popstars/IG Models/OF Models or consuming/watching/reading
"Red Pill" content.

If you "Took the red pill" and you know that being the best man, you can possibly be can (and will) result in women,
then why the fukk are you sitting on a message board arguing YOUR TRUTH for dozens of pages instead of focusing on self-actualization?


Again, be fukking real with yourself.

No one on here can you look at YOU and be real about YOU other than YOU.

Take a list.
Go over your income.
Go over your education.
Go over your waistline.
Go over all of that.
If you can't face it, you aren't fukking ready.
So stick to watching porn and posting about how you get no women.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Men who are less attractive compared to other men than their romantic partner is compared to other women are more likely to get into that relationship if they were friends for a significant time before marriage, and more likely to appear attractive to their mate, despite their "lower attractiveness" to outside observers, if they and their partner have a lot of other things in common and spend more and more time together.

So in other words, she couldn’t find a man she was mutually attracted to, and after years of friend zoning him, she settled because she didn’t want to be alone. If she could have those qualities in a man she found attractive, she would choose him. But she couldn’t. You are vastly underestimating how much some women dread being alone.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

So in other words, she couldn’t find a man she was mutually attracted to, and after years of friend zoning him, she settled because she didn’t want to be alone. If she could have those qualities in a man she found attractive, she would choose him. But she couldn’t. You are vastly underestimating how much some women dread being alone.

Breh, the more you ignore what the studies actually said, the more you just look ignorant. Have things your way.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

True.

I think the point from the white boy is that women will forgive men for ANYTHING if he's attractive enough.

Like just putting up pics of "Chad", we all know women would flock to him. However....when "Chad" admitted to beating up women, being a cheater etc., and women STILL flooding his DM's I think that's what shocked ol dude.

Everyone knows looks >>> everything else...for initial attraction....but women list all these qualities they want when the physical is the only one that actually matters. Some men already know this but I don't think ol dude did.

Also - women don't value casual sex/flings because they can get men well out of their league to fukk around, no strings attached. That's why a lot of ladies will fukk with a handsome loser...and he doesn't have to jump through any hoops. Puzzy on the first night. She'll smash a few times and ignore him except for when she's horny. In HER mind, she's just using him.....but that's EXACTLY what single/young men want....a rolodex of women that just want dikk and conversation a couple of times a week. What's worthless to her (casual sex) is everything the incel dreams of.

Men want to be attractive enough to where they can smash top tier women without having to offer commitment, money etc. Women only offer this to good looking bums. They offer it to 6 figs/6 certs brehs.....but they usually use sex to try and keep those guys.

ngl gang, my first thought was to write ol' boy off as a weirdo but I decided to give everything a second look.
my thoughts though
1. bra woulda had a bigger impact had this been a legit collaboration experiment
either way you slice his point taking another cat pic and pretending its your own sum weird shii and it negates impact.
Imagine being buddy with an girl and now yall beefin you end up going viral cause a weirdo used your photo for a sick ass project on a dating app lol
putting all types of labels on yo face card and shii

2.the dames choosing shii whatever, they choosing on all levels in every field of life. Even over here in the #handsomeganginc.

3.Quiet part got put on front street about the DV. We all knew this, men and women,but after post me too..Ha..

. Lotta people got they careers nuked some rightfully so, but looka here. If we entertain the optics, only difference between fake whiteboy and dem is clout. And they still gave em a pass on it...they choosing in all aspects. lol

To the youngboys lurking worldwide on this thread/site: dont be like buddy in the experiment
eat well, work out, study hard and learn finances and try to put yourself around ones doing better than or equal to you. Soak game from everyone you can. Learn to read eyes, learn to ready body language. Most importantly, What's for you is gonna be for you, you not gonna have kill your mental and emotional wellbeing to get her.