I mean, obviously your ideas of what is beautiful is going to be completely different from a tranny, but I don't think its disrespectful towards the females in your life for him/her to voice their opinion. What do you mean by your daughter shouldn't have to compete against heshe?I understand if SHE feels that way. But I don't have to agree with her. My daughter shouldn't have to compete against her. And I shouldn't be torn down as a bad person just because I feel that way. People don't like alot of stuff I do but I would be wrong to condemn them as hateful bigoted people, just because they disagree with me.
and I agree, you aren't a bad person for your opinion.
edit: Its completely natural for heterosexual males to be disgusted by a tranny, we all are.