I'm infatuated with this new woman I'm seeing. Past situations makes me want to put up a guard,but that wouldn't be fair to her.

[Morethan1]

As cats said communication is key.

Most fears and issues in life stem from lack of communication.

People will literally kill each other because one person is afraid of saying I'm sorry.

Just talk it out. It's easier in the short term than letting shyt build up, snapping, hiding it, arguing, lashing out, etc.

I'll say this without giving up too much information.

Talking is easier than ending friendships and relationships

 

[LeaveMyHairLineAlone]

what's the point of trying to date if you are paranoid or have baggage. dating should be fun.
go see a therapist and come back to her when you are whole

Good coochie can also be therapeutic