I was just asking a question black man.I wish much success to you with your new lady friend
I'm infatuated with this new woman I'm seeing. Past situations makes me want to put up a guard,but that wouldn't be fair to her.
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I was just asking a question black man.I wish much success to you with your new lady friend
DreadBrown
Feed the children
You did the right thing bro communication is always the best way forward
Sound like she didn’t take it personal and the convo went well you on to a winner g
You did the right thing bro communication is always the best way forward
Sound like she didn’t take it personal and the convo went well you on to a winner g
Yeah breh, all this. Communication is the key to every successful relationship regardless if it's platonic/romantic/business/etc.
One of the hardest parts is taking that first step, you passed that one breh..
The next is making sure you check in with yourself and have an honest dialogue with yourself to evaluate the situation and levelset or adjust if need be... What can make this difficult is a. Many (most?) of us aren't really honest with ourselves and b. Romance can cloud our thought process.
Be open to all the opportunities, but "when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time".
Mindfield333
Superstar
“These new women”
Or
“This new woman”
Or
“This new woman”
It's way too many broken people out here. The problem is that people don't want to be alone but they also don't want to do the inner work required after a previous relationship failed. It's a lot of hurt or here hurting other people. You should have boundaries but never moving out here with your guard up. You can't see people for who they truly are if both of y'all have to climb over walls to get to each other.
It’s normal for people with certain unhealthy coping mechanisms. Try therapyShe cool,educated, cook, good looking and all around solid. I know I'm in the infatuated stage and with any relationships are work
Yet I've seen myself instantly throw up my guard in situations.
Is this normal?
How do I not be this way in these limited situations?
Or is it human nature?
Peter Popoff
AKA Petty Pimpiń..🤑
Human nature. Let that shyt play out and don't rush shyt. Just enjoy her company and comfort shyt takes time. It's called trust.She cool,educated, cook, good looking and all around solid. I know I'm in the infatuated stage and with any relationships are work
Yet I've seen myself instantly throw up my guard in situations.
Is this normal?
How do I not be this way in these limited situations?
Or is it human nature?
That's not helpful
You got kids?
Too personal a question I'm answering on here. But if I did or didn't I don't believe it's the reason I had/have these feelings
weirdo behavior and clout chasing.How you asking for insightful advice but scared to answer basic questions.
SteelCitySoldier
TSC Fantasy Football Champion 2016
Been through the same exact thing and almost lost the woman. If you ain't ready communicate it, talk to her about it.
How you asking for insightful advice but scared to answer basic questions.
I got the help I needed honestly. I talked to her about the issue and will bring it up in therapy.
Read the entire thread
As cats said communication is key.
Most fears and issues in life stem from lack of communication.
People will literally kill each other because one person is afraid of saying I'm sorry.
Just talk it out. It's easier in the short term than letting shyt build up, snapping, hiding it, arguing, lashing out, etc.