I'm entering my "focus on self. No hoes." phase. Any insight?

Wildin

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- including most of YouTube.

YouTube can be a good source.

I have an echo chamber of shyt on my watch list.

I say it's an echo chamber because it's literally 10-25 people that usually end up saying the same or the same form of the same shyt. but it's all productive shyt like "try this way to read more books, faster and understand more!" Or chess videos, mindfulness thinking, etc.

Every once and a while I learn something new or get a good recommendation for a book. But a lot of it is good advice, positive suggestions and such just repeated.
 

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for some it's not a phase, it's a lifestyle :datazz:

insight you ask?
it's not on you, it's in you. from the way you have been on here begging for prono links while claiming to have a whole gf, you probably gonna be back cupcaking in a few weeks like you never left.
get it how you live :yeshrug:
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good music, a spot of mellow top shelf booze, and some books you’ve been wanting to read. quietly I also take the time alone to atone for the daughters I’ve dogged out:snoop:
 

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Get the absolute hell off of social media. All of it.

Choose a hobby and invest in it. Like pick up a nice expensive Canon or Nikon and get into professional photography. Get a bunch of art supplies and try painting. Pick up some instruments and music gear and get into music production. Get you a DeWalt saw and some wood and try a DIY project. Find something to dedicate yourself to, give you new purpose and skills, and be part of your new life and identity.

Have a drawer full of workout gear. Leggings and all. Consider a casual street or bar sport you can see yourself enjoying anytime. Biking, skating, jogging of course, table tennis, handball, whatever gets you moving and happy.

Read some good non-fiction, especially stuff about the male experience, and social psychology. "How to Win Friends and Influence People" deserves a spot in every man's study.
 

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1. NO HOES
2. FOCUS ON SELF.


This. Delete all the dating apps. And focus only on yourself. I dont even entertain bytches even if they are interested. Had a relationship for 13y got done dirty and said fukk it. I had it and im done with it.

Now im getting back in shape and getting my money up. When i hit these 5 figures i might entertain bytches again but never for something serious ever again
 

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for some it's not a phase, it's a lifestyle :datazz:

insight you ask?
it's not on you, it's in you. from the way you have been on here begging for prono links while claiming to have a whole gf, you probably gonna be back cupcaking in a few weeks like you never left.
get it how you live :yeshrug:
:mjlit: I bushed that girl and hit two randoms since I made that thread.

Practice semen retention stack chips until you meet a quality broad.
I don't want to admit it, but I probably should do this specifically.
 

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I said this shyt too back in January when I broke up with my ex. I didn't last 45 days...

Just pick one chick and just give her 1 day/1 evening a week. Rest of the time you can be monk mode.
 
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