I'm entering my "focus on self. No hoes." phase. Any insight?

[Fiji Water]

I'm a philanderer but I gotta stop being a ho. Too much on the line. Not in a dramatic way, but I gotta keep it a buck. Sex be a distraction. Women be time consuming. Etc.

I'm asking the thorough brehs, what's really good? I bulked up properly to 205 from 185. Been reading a lot. Eating Quran, too. I just fall weak sometimes and let a bish run a month out my life out of habit. shyt ain't even fun no more.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I'm a philanderer but I gotta stop being a ho. Too much on the line. Not in a dramatic way, but I gotta keep it a buck. Sex be a distraction. Women be time consuming. Etc.

I'm asking the thorough brehs, what's really good? I bulked up properly to 205 from 185. Been reading a lot. Eating Quran, too. I just fall weak sometimes and let a bish run a month out my life out of habit. shyt ain't even fun no more.

I mean what exactly are you doing with women that's consuming so much of your time? Are you simping?

 

[Assata Shakur]

Read a lot and hit the gym

 

[Ghost Utmost]

 

[cyndaquil]

How...do you let one woman take a whole month of your time breh?
Do you not time box these women?

 

[jilla82]

You can do a complete 180 in your life within a year by not putting any energy into dating...
straight focusing on work, health, etc....

 

[RickyDiBiase]

your friends will be your sanity reminder.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

1. NO HOES
2. FOCUS ON SELF.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

That’s when the hoes gonna really be callin

 

[Silkk]

1. The women will always be there
2. There will always be badder women

 

[rabbid]

sexual gratification is an infinite resource. you can sustain yourself by watching sosua beach videos on youtube. if you need intimacy, just find a shrink with a bbl.

 

[Fiji Water]

I mean what exactly are you doing with women that's consuming so much of your time? Are you simping?

How...do you let one woman take a whole month of your time breh?
Do you not time box these women?

I be letting them monopolize my space and get cozy. I try to manage my time but I get soft when they be like "U* don't like me no more?".

So I find myself playing catch up on thrills. It that makes sense.

Basically, I'm a heartbreaker. But I'm too old for that shyt. It just be hard because I like a pretty thick jawn sprung on me.

--But it's not productive. Tryna break out of complacency. I have a tendency to be shiny to ladies. But in reality, I'm rightfully selfish. So I can't keep serving two masters.

 

[cyndaquil]

I be letting them monopolize my space and get cozy. I try to manage my time but I get soft when they be like "U* don't like me no more?".

So I find myself playing catch up on thrills. It that makes sense.

Basically, I'm a heartbreaker. But I'm too old for that shyt. It just be hard because I like a pretty thick jawn sprung on me.

--But it's not productive. Tryna break out of complacency. I have a tendency to be shiny to ladies. But in reality, I'm rightfully selfish. So I can't keep serving two masters.

Find a woman that's gonna put you on the back burner like you do these women. You'll have plenty of time then. Since I'm guessing none of this is serious dating for you this shouldn't be a problem right?

 

[Wildin]

I'm a philanderer but I gotta stop being a ho. Too much on the line. Not in a dramatic way, but I gotta keep it a buck. Sex be a distraction. Women be time consuming. Etc.

I'm asking the thorough brehs, what's really good? I bulked up properly to 205 from 185. Been reading a lot. Eating Quran, too. I just fall weak sometimes and let a bish run a month out my life out of habit. shyt ain't even fun no more.

What's your plan?

What do you want to learn?
What do you want to achieve?
What goal do you want to finally start?

If you are really in that stage you should have a list. Like a stack of books you are ready to read and finish. Get the keyboard out the closet, or the guitar, or your old sax. Or go buy a new one and finally learn. Dust off your old art set. Start learning a new language. Find that weak point you had, maybe it was a math, or science, focus on that, learn it and overcome.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

for some it's not a phase, it's a lifestyle

insight you ask?
it's not on you, it's in you. from the way you have been on here begging for prono links while claiming to have a whole gf, you probably gonna be back cupcaking in a few weeks like you never left.
get it how you live