I'm attracted to my co-worker and i have a fiance((UPDATE IN ORIGINAL))

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I think it's perfectly natural to get crushes and just because you're committed to someone, does not mean your ability to get attracted to other people just stops. However, how you go about those scenarios while in a committed relationship is key. You're going to meet individuals in the work place, or any social setting that you may find attractive but you need to identify it and act upon it properly. Engaging in workplace flirtation was the first wrong move with someone you actually find attractive; agreeing to meet for coffee to continue your flirtatious dynamic outside of your workplace is just taking it way too far.

You already know the answer to this scenario. Either dismiss your engagements with him and keep a distance from him from here on out, or end your relationship with your fiance. I'd suggest the latter because imo, if you were happy, you wouldn't be taking this shyt this far.

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OMG!! I just spit out my water..

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now u know u wrong for using a regular size woman gif:upsetfavre:





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from this alone i sense you are fat

cause if you were slim you wouldnt have to guess if any man could lift you



you are a fat thot


i hope ya man leaves u and takes your seed
u big bytch


:dead: I was just about to say the same. Gotta be a big bytch.

She needs to do the right thing, not only call off the coffee but call off that engagement. It's all a matter of time before she's sitting her fat ass on some other dudes dikk.
 

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If a man made this post.....:mjlol:The replies would be very different.
yeah, I feel like a hypocrite... but that op pissed me off a lil... can't trust these hoes.

Look at how she's talking about him.... building a connection n shyt.

The few times her fiance got some side p*ssy, at least he just thought she got a body, fukked, keep it moving. ... not on his mind 24 7
 

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I think it's perfectly natural to get crushes and just because you're committed to someone, does not mean your ability to get attracted to other people just stops. However, how you go about those scenarios while in a committed relationship is key. You're going to meet individuals in the work place, or any social setting that you may find attractive but you need to identify it and act upon it properly. Engaging in workplace flirtation was the first wrong move with someone you actually find attractive; agreeing to meet for coffee to continue your flirtatious dynamic outside of your workplace is just taking it way too far.

You already know the answer to this scenario. Either dismiss your engagements with him and keep a distance from him from here on out, or end your relationship with your fiance. I'd suggest the latter because imo, if you were happy, you wouldn't be taking this shyt this far.

:yeshrug:
fukk outta here with this level headedness shyt:camby:
 
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