I'm attracted to my co-worker and i have a fiance((UPDATE IN ORIGINAL))

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Question: @Goddess_Godiva are you physically attracted to your fiance or are you just in love with him? Can he not "pick you up" seems like he's not enough man for you if this other dude's manliness is turning you on. Think its less the guy and more what your fiance doesn't have. the "other guy" will just be played by different dudes until you eventually give in. Am I off base?
:ohhh: Damn, never thought about like that.... My Fiance is enough man & i love him& i am attracted to him. Its just the young dude is physically is strong, a bad boy/thug & extremely sexy, which kind of turns me on to him. My Fiance cannot physically pick me up... Its the young dudes thugness/physical appearence.... You are defintely on to something........ I feel horrible though:snoop:
 
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So there is this guy, we work in an office setting together, we flirt.....hell we flirt alot sometimes with a sexual innuendo, he's fine as fucck,:noah: muscular build..younger than me & he turns me on just by the way he looks at me:takedat:. I try to avoid him cause temptation is a bytch.....:birdman:. I think he's single but i am not sure.. He asked me to sit and have coffee with him on this saturday morning and i said yes.... But i have a Fiance............a live in Fiance at that, we have a child together... & my co-worker knows this.Jesus help me.... He looks like he can pick me up...:whew:. I have impure thoughts of him.......Am i a trollop?? :lupe:We haven't fukked other than the thoughts in my mind.....i'm sure if i "keep getting coffee" with him things could get nasty but i feel like a cheater already....... Am i wrong to have these impure thoughts?? I need to back out on getting coffee with him but his fineness is stopping me. Go ahead call me out....call me tramp and a whore... This may help me....:wow:


What would you do if you were in this situation???


from this alone i sense you are fat

cause if you were slim you wouldnt have to guess if any man could lift you



you are a fat thot


i hope ya man leaves u and takes your seed
u big bytch
 

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@Goddess_Godiva you need to get that shyt out your system before marriage ma. Im not saying cheat by any means but maybe yall need to take a break instead of you doing some cruddy shyt. You basically gotta quench your thirst or you always gon be thirsty.

Or tell ya boy get his frumpy ass in the gym :troll:
 

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I think it's perfectly natural to get crushes and just because you're committed to someone, does not mean your ability to get attracted to other people just stops. However, how you go about those scenarios while in a committed relationship is key. You're going to meet individuals in the work place, or any social setting that you may find attractive but you need to identify it and act upon it properly. Engaging in workplace flirtation was the first wrong move with someone you actually find attractive; agreeing to meet for coffee to continue your flirtatious dynamic outside of your workplace is just taking it way too far.

You already know the answer to this scenario. Either dismiss your engagements with him and keep a distance from him from here on out, or end your relationship with your fiance. I'd suggest the latter because imo, if you were happy, you wouldn't be taking this shyt this far.

:yeshrug:
 

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You've already had a child out of wedlock...

I guess cheating on your "fiance" would be just another line on your list of mistakes....


from this alone i sense you are fat

cause if you were slim you wouldnt have to guess if any man could lift you



you are a fat thot


i hope ya man leaves u and takes your seed
u big bytch




fat bytch cheated on her diet

and now the father oh her seed:wow:



bytch is only loyal to Golden Coral

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I think it's perfectly natural to get crushes and just because you're committed to someone, does not mean your ability to get attracted to other people just stops. However, how you go about those scenarios while in a committed relationship is key. You're going to meet individuals in the work place, or any social setting that you may find attractive but you need to identify it and act upon it properly. Engaging in workplace flirtation was the first wrong move with someone you actually find attractive; agreeing to meet for coffee to continue your flirtatious dynamic outside of your workplace is just taking it way too far.

You already know the answer to this scenario. Either dismiss your engagements with him and keep a distance from him from here on out, or end your relationship with your fiance. I'd suggest the latter because imo, if you were happy, you wouldn't be taking this shyt this far.

:yeshrug:


:sadbron:

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