I'm attracted to my co-worker and i have a fiance((UPDATE IN ORIGINAL))

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this thread right here is why I lay massive pipe to my fiancé, stay in the gym plus bjj, flip on her for no damn reason sometimes(just to remind her a nikka aint soft),
and make do random things to spoil her(so she feel appreciated but also so other broads will tell her how good she got it), cause it don't take much for a female to lose intrest in a man then start letting another dude grab hold of it.
 

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I think it could be more of a sexual thing. He's extremely attractive. he is in my face and i think about him when I know i shouldn't be.
I do think its sexual though....like a sexual attraction.....
With my Fiance i feel like we are losing touch in that sensual area.


ahhhh. Well thats both of you guys fault. Why dont you tell him how you are feeling about the lack of passion?
 

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:to: shyt! I know... The devil is lie.... I need to backout on that coffee.... :sadbron:
Reading page 1 but it sounds like you shouldnt be in a relationship. You need to get of that out of your system tbh. If you have sex with dude, you pretty much saying hes better than your husband. If you allow him to fukk you, hes going to FEEL like hes better than your husband. Don't think you should be asking advice on something you already know the answer to. The brehs arent here to calm your concious. Like asac schroeder said "do what you gon do"
 
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Reading page 1 but it sounds like you shouldnt be in a relationship. You need to get of that out of your system tbh. If you have sex with dude, you pretty much saying hes better than your husband. If you allow him to fukk you, hes going to FEEL like hes better than your husband. Don't think you should be asking advice on something you already know the answer to. The brehs arent here to calm your concious. Like asac schroeder said "do what you gon do"

You are right.

I keep saying temptation is a real fukk it situation. If a woman cheats she is a THOT, if a man cheats he's the nikka. Not saying this is an excusable instance but damn i am weak and feel like i'm going to give in. I can't take it anymore .... The intensity & curiosity i have is insatiable... He can't work without interacting with me and i can't work.....We too focused on each other & the unknown... I know i'm a stupid bytch......... I know....
 

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You are right.

I keep saying temptation is a real fukk it situation. If a woman cheats she is a THOT, if a man cheats he's the nikka. Not saying this is an excusable instance but damn i am weak and feel like i'm going to give in. I can't take it anymore .... The intensity & curiosity i have is insatiable... He can't work without interacting with me and i can't work.....We too focused on each other & the unknown... I know i'm a stupid bytch......... I know....
i dont think your a thot. But i feel you shouldn't be engaged because your husband about to get hurt. Sure he may not find out but you've already decided to cheat...just havent done it physically. You cant resist dude (thats obvious) so you should try and figure out why your so attracted to him. Imo, some women love the idea of cheating moreso than an actual long lasting relationship. It only feels that tempting BECAUSE you have someone at home that cares for you. I really feel you should just cut it off but if you cant resist then so be it. Life goes on
 

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You are right.

I keep saying temptation is a real fukk it situation. If a woman cheats she is a THOT, if a man cheats he's the nikka. Not saying this is an excusable instance but damn i am weak and feel like i'm going to give in. I can't take it anymore .... The intensity & curiosity i have is insatiable... He can't work without interacting with me and i can't work.....We too focused on each other & the unknown... I know i'm a stupid bytch......... I know....


sadly....I'm gonna advise you to go ahead and make this mistake since you're hell bent on it.

be VERY prepared to be a single mother, knowing it was you.re fault.

some lessons in life need to be learned the hard way I guess?


*but forreal you should consider the feelings of your child and fiancee in this. If this guy is that tempting (which I don't really believe, you just sound like you got that itch). then others will be.

should have got an abortion of taken the pill, then you wouldn't have gotten engaged to a man you're not compatible with for the sake of appearance.

and this is speaking from a man who has banged an older married chick and left her alone when I was young.

scumbag life
 

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You are right.

I keep saying temptation is a real fukk it situation. If a woman cheats she is a THOT, if a man cheats he's the nikka. Not saying this is an excusable instance but damn i am weak and feel like i'm going to give in. I can't take it anymore .... The intensity & curiosity i have is insatiable... He can't work without interacting with me and i can't work.....We too focused on each other & the unknown... I know i'm a stupid bytch......... I know....


You're cheating for a dumb Thot ass reason though. Because he's attractive? Smh. nikkas who cheat because a bytch is fly aren't (that nikka) they are lames too. If you were fukking the dude to get something from him and it didn't mean anything to you that would be accepted on some :ehh: shyt. Instead you want to fukk him for pure enjoyment/trying to please him. If that ain't a hoe/Thot then what do you call that?
 
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this thread right here is why I lay massive pipe to my fiancé, stay in the gym plus bjj, flip on her for no damn reason sometimes(just to remind her a nikka aint soft),
and make do random things to spoil her(so she feel appreciated but also so other broads will tell her how good she got it), cause it don't take much for a female to lose intrest in a man then start letting another dude grab hold of it.


:sas1:, but no telling what she'll do for a cup of coffee though :sas2:
 
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