I’m about to be 30 and haven’t been in a single relationship my entire adult life.

[African Peasant]

Focus on yourself and be a better version of yourself: physically, mentally, and spiritually. It's not too late. You just 30.


Don't have a defeatist mentality, if you, you done.

 

[ORDER_66]

I don't see a problem alot of chicks nothing but trouble in a relationship, sex is great don't get me wrong but when you emotionally start falling for a chick you at her whims now... been there done that too old for bullshyt

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Even though I’m in the healthiest relationship of my life
The grass ain’t always greener my boy
Even the most wonderful woman in the world
Can put you through some shyt
Not saying my current but I can attest to at least 5 bytches I wish I never met
And each of those where pivotal moments in my life
I don’t regret the lessons but I do regret the pain
If you really trying to be with someone
You have to be happy in complete self first
Have to enjoy your life before a woman
Women aren’t meant to MAKE you
They are there to COMPLIMENT your lifestyle
Get some hobbies, join group outings for singles, exploring yoga/meditation classes, open your world up to new things
You are not going to find a woman by just being routine
Just like with women
You can’t have all these dreams of a woman if you not doing the work
Even if you are getting rejected
Gotta keep shooting
That applies to everything in life
Good Luck on your journey

 

[Lilbeast]

Dawg go on pof and get someone for “cuffing season”. Break up with her in March. Trust me you need the experience

 

[Ghost Utmost]

@MarciknoW

You see all kinds of dudes with women. So weight or looks are not insurmountable barriers.

The things you can control can balance out the things you cant.

Become as fit as possible. But also have good posture. Eye contact. Confidence. A strong walk and a strong vocal presence. Grooming. Fashion.

Money always helps

But there isaa version of yourself that women will like. It just takes playing that part. Cause if they not feeling you then you're behaving OTHER THAN the best way.

May be uncomfortable to step into more of a leadership role that requires bold action. Its not easy

And that's why most people don't do it.

They just do the same thing they BEEN doing and complain that its not working.

If you were doing the job of building something you'd abandon the models that don't work after a very short time.

So do that with your behavior. There is an optimal way to act for you.

Discover it by trying new things

 

[SheWantTheD]

Start approaching women like @Pdiddy dude approaching like 50 women a week.

whole lotta no’s but some will eventually bite

 

[Lord_nikon]

It's your fault op

 

[monsterpreneur]

Most people haven't, so you are fine.

 

[Marci-Senpai]

Give me your height and weight .

what do you do for work? Where do you live? How much money do you make?

Did you go to college?

Damn u need all of that? Let’s see….
5 ft 5 310lbs I work in law enforcement (not a cop) I live in the Bahamas and I make enough! Lol

I have a BBA in computer programming

 

[Goodbye World]

If you're still having sex I don't get the problem?

 

[WaveMolecules]

im 35 and i think ive only been single from 27-31, even then had some steadies.

single life is fantastic. relatoinships are fantastic.

enjoy your situation. green grass and what not.

 

[Marci-Senpai]

What if he never put himself out there
It seems like that’s op’s true problem

U are correct here my guy…I just don’t get out the house like that…my fault entirely I know but there’s something about the safety of being home that’s keeps me here

 

[The Radiant One]

Damn u need all of that? Let’s see….
5 ft 5 310lbs I work in law enforcement (not a cop) I live in the Bahamas and I make enough! Lol

I have a BBA in computer programming

So do you make more or less then the avg household

Your BMI is 51. You need to lose weight breh like you are in bottom percentile of fitness Especially for your height.

 

[Negus in Detroit]

Damn u need all of that? Let’s see….
5 ft 5 310lbs I work in law enforcement (not a cop) I live in the Bahamas and I make enough! Lol

I have a BBA in computer programming

Get in the gym and get your physical together it’s bad enough you’re fellow short gang member but being short and 310lbs is not the move

 

[Astroslik]

Damn u need all of that? Let’s see….
5 ft 5 310lbs I work in law enforcement (not a cop) I live in the Bahamas and I make enough! Lol

I have a BBA in computer programming

If you’re really 5’5 310 you have way bigger issues to worry about bro