I'm 5'4 and Asian

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No insecurity on my part. I'm proud of who I am, but I have to also recognize that being Asian might be considered a negative in dating (especially with non-ratch latinas). I wouldn't trade places with no man, but I'm asking from a practical perspective. Realistically, would it be worth it to keep dating or should I just stick with high class escorts? I'm not looking to raise any mouths to feed. Just want to keep getting laid and paid (obviously a non-working chick would be better, but is it even attainable without doing some miraculous Ray Allen Game 6 type shyt).

well your assuming that women are not going to fukk with you because your Asian

That's a negative defeatist attitude already, that's not positive or healthy thought pattern

This thread will go multiple pages with all types of superficial shyt like "game" or asthetics, when tha correct answer is a pretty simple one, be yourself and meet new people, wutever comes from that whether its sex or friendship learn to appreciate....

a goal of changing yourself to have mindless sex with a bunch of females is going to leave you empty and unsatisfied anyway :yeshrug:
 

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latinas dont really fukk with "chinos" that wat alot of those bytches told me
 

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No insecurity on my part. I'm proud of who I am, but I have to also recognize that being Asian might be considered a negative in dating (especially with non-ratch latinas). I wouldn't trade places with no man, but I'm asking from a practical perspective. Realistically, would it be worth it to keep dating or should I just stick with high class escorts? I'm not looking to raise any mouths to feed. Just want to keep getting laid and paid (obviously a non-working chick would be better, but is it even attainable without doing some miraculous Ray Allen Game 6 type shyt).
:why: whoever was supposed to guide you in the ways of being a man seriously dropped the ball

get fukkin serious breh. im actually astonished you typed that.

stop spending money on one-time fukks, stop coming to the coli for this stuff because your situation is much more dire than we can handle, and hire a life coach ASAP.
 

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:why: whoever was supposed to guide you in the ways of being a man seriously dropped the ball

get fukkin serious breh. im actually astonished you typed that.

stop spending money on one-time fukks, stop coming to the coli for this stuff because your situation is much more dire than we can handle, and hire a life coach ASAP.

Dude makes 200k a year :mjpls:

What he need a life coach for? How much you make? :mjpls:
 

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What's an "average salary" for a guy that can afford expensive escorts? :patrice:

Here's some things that will help:

  • Pick up an impressive performance-based hobby like music.
  • You're short, but you don't have to think short. Act like you're 6'4" and people will naturally take you more seriously.
  • You might be in luck from your height, girls won't be initially drawn you, but you're much less threatening and can therefore make better advances.
  • Disregard any shortcoming that you might have based on shallow things. If you're a good guy who's got shyt going for him, remember that about yourself next time you're talking to women.
  • Don't show fear or apprehension, ever. Show cool-headedness and dominance in your relationships.
  • Do cool stuff. Anything worth striking up a conversation over. See conerts. Perform stand up comedy. Go skydiving. Take lots of pictures of it. Casually talk about it like it's an every day thing.

:manny: All I could think of for now.

So, basically @Kabnis, pretend you're interesting and confident. :ld:
 
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He makes 200k fukk my nikkka why dont u mail order brides ?

Or go to asia and get the cutest girl u can find.

You aint losing breh look past these american hoes.

best advice. Dont listen to that "get a hobby" bullchit.
 

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Get no attention from women. I make a decent salary and am in shape. Average-looking dude with average hobbies (outside of ish that the Coli gets worked up over). Should I just stick with expensive escorts or should I give the dating thing a try one more time? America's dating scene is pretty hostile towards the short and the Asian.


Not true at all.
 

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you need to fix your mind breh. You got your money right. you're in shape. you dress how you like. What you need to start doing is stop fukking escorts for a moment and also stop thinking about chasing women. just sit back and observe. try to see who's checking you out. Try to see who's into you without you chasing after them. Try to see who's choosing you first. Stop focusing on a specific nationality or type. just lay back and observe. After a while of doing this, in environments where you regularly see the same chicks, you'll notice some of them will either give you signs to approach or straight up approach you. Approach the ones you are attracted to out of the bunch that chooses you first. And keep improving yourself in whatever aspect you feel you can get better. Not to get women but just for you. As you do this, the better person you become, the more (and better) women you will attract.


And yeah, stop thinking about "I'm asian, i'm short...". you're putting out a bad vibe by thinking about these things. get your mind right.
 

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damn i wish i had that 200 k tho
 
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