I'm 25 years old and live with my parents. That makes me a loser right?

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I couldn't imagine living with my parents at 25. I was out at 20 and never looked back, even when I was struggling. Start waiting tables or bartending if you need money. You can make enough doing that.
 

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Nah. Dude I lived in my parents house for a couple of months after I graduated college and before I moved to NY. I did it to save money.

It did suck though. especially sleeping in my bedroom where I hadn't slept in for years...still with posters from high school on the wall.

that is kinda humbling, but not overly bad as u were fresh outta college and starting a new job. that is how it was for me too back then. at least by having a job, I was doing something every day. and I still had a girlfriend who was still in college who I was visiting like every other weekend, so it could have been much worse.
 

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My situation is a bit different....

I moved from my folks crib and was on my own for like, 4 years before I had to move back in with my mom (my stepdad bounced, which is part of the reason I'm there now)...I lived with my ex for about a yeAr, then moved back with moms. I'm about to be 30 in a couple of months...I have a plan, but it gonna take a few months or so...I still feel some type of way about being here, but most a nigg can do now is work the plan (which is working out, I just want to get a second job so I can set the pace faster)...
 

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shyt just dawned on me this morning. Like I could of sworn when I was 17 I vowed to move out around 23...but I'm still fukking here. I even peeped my folks giving me that :comeon: get the fukk out our house look a few times. But real talk, this is my new mission, I gotta get outta here. Hopefully the next thread I make will be in my apartment.
do you work? go to school? f hoes?
 

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SMH @ putting your son out when he still in HS. There ain't no jobs out there like that anymore and hustling shyt ain't gonna get the bills paid anymore.
i left at 14....

plus, 17 or 18, getting ready to graduate and be a man... raise them right and it's all good.

daughters.... she can live w me in her 20's
 

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i left at 14....

plus, 17 or 18, getting ready to graduate and be a man... raise them right and it's all good.

daughters.... she can live w me in her 20's


Times are different. When did you graduate HS and what did you do to support yourself?
 

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you're a piece of shyt and a sad sack excuse of a man, i feel sorry for your grandmother and i wanna slap your mother for giving birth to a maggot such as yourself
 

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yall make this thread like every month b........i co-own a house with my mom at 26.............and my sister lives here too............i'll leave when i can buy my own house in a couple years...im not moving into no apartment
seein youre a grown man, do u still sneak girls in or check into hotels?
 

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Breh me and my gf went and looked at one of those apts back when we struggling. I mean the inside is pretty nice and decent size but as soon as you walk out and got a dozen :birdman: staring you down, looking like a Ace Hood video shoot, I knew it would never work. :laugh:
:dead::dead::dead::deadrose::deadrose::deadrose: breh said lookin like a ace hood video shoot:laff:
 

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I'm in the same boat, breh. Just got a warehouse job getting 11/hr full time. Beats unemployment. Feels good to be a member of society again, like I'm working towards something and I'm not stagnant.

Found another job that's 13/hr closer to home. I'm going to work out my budget just so that's at the back of my mind and I can operate on autopilot for awhile. Then I can focus on drawing in my time off and make some money on the side.
:ohhh: post artwork
 

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Times are different. When did you graduate HS and what did you do to support yourself?
17 i graduated..

my friends sold drugs, my best friend whos like my brother had no future, so he hooked me up. when people got locked up and things got crazy, i joined military so i they could pay for my other degree. And yea times r different...... there is more opportunity than ever, imo.


nothing wrong w living at home.. just for me a daughter can stay. a son can only 'come back' if things get bad.
 
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I would just join the military - worked out for me. Just be prepared for slavery 2.0

But naw, I wouldn't consider you a loser at all, a lot of people still live with their folks. Times have changed.
 
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