I’m 25 year old and still a Virgin. I could use some some advice. UPDATE: I finally lost my v card

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

Man i was gonna make fun of you, but; Tinder, OKCupid and prostitues are your friend. Go out there and get some p*ssy

 

[AllHolosEve]

1. When you pay for sex you are supporting human trafficking.

2. Most whores have drug and mental problems from fukking 100+ sweaty fat tricks a year.

3. You probably view woman as objects so that's how you rationalize tricking.

Nah, I don't worry about where a dude spend his money. Even if you can afford it you still a trick. You worked for it though, do you.

I'm one of the ones that see dating as a legal form of prostitution. I shouldn't have to go to a movie and dinner to fukk when I can just give her the cash and save time. That Boondocks skit is how I feel.

I don't support human trafficking, but if they're willing participants , no minors. Got a chick right now wanna get lunch, nope.

 

[AAKing23]

How tall are you?

6'2

 

[Nighthawk]

First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height “I’m 5’5’’ by the way.” I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?

Get an escort

Aim for women of low standards

Massage parlour

Get your teeth fixed/ straightened

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height “I’m 5’5’’ by the way.” I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?

You know the answer.

Improve your social circles naturally.

Talk more.

Everyone exercises and has a job that earns money that's nothing special. So, what can you offer that they don't have in their life already? That could literally be anything.

If you don't talk to women (people in general for that matter) to find out what they are missing in their life then what's the point being their friend or partner. How would you know what a woman is looking for if you aren't inquisitive?

My father was around your height and my mother much taller around 6 foot but my father was a funny motherfukker and he was socially adept in that people would just wanna talk to him for long periods of time not saying much but expressing themselves nonetheless. He was sociable. He travelled and was generous to people. Maybe the reason why women don't want you is that you don't express yourself to them properly and in the right way.

I like loose women like the next man but I wont conversate with her like I would with a female colleague. Also, IT is an extremely boring ice breaker. Why not talk about what you plan to do with your life instead, talk about your past being passionate.

Finally, if that doesn't happen go on a dating app because women literally will have sex with anyone that doesn't look like a retard.

If all else fails, you know what type of person you've gotta call "to release the fluid"...

[Verse 3: 2Pac - "Temptations"]

A lot of people think it's easy to settle down
Got a woman that'll please me in every town
I don't wanna but I gotta do it
The temptation got me ready to release the fluid
Sensation, sit down and conversate
Like you know me, take my hand
'Cause even thugs get lonely, understand
Even the hardest of my homies need attention
Catch you blowin' up the telephone, reminiscin'
I wanna take you to the movies and the park
Let's find a spot for you to do me in the dark
Now that it's passion, hold me tight
Don't need lights, I can see you by the moonlight
I know your man ain't lovin' you right
You're lonely and depressed, you need a thug in your life
Enough talkin', you want me to leave I'll get to walkin'
See you later, 'cause baby, I'm a player, and all I heard was—

Stay skrong breh!!

 

[Sunalmighty]

Keep your fukking pants up. If possible wait until you get married to the RIGHT woman. If not and you slip up and get a bytch pregnant your LIFE is fukked. Child support aint no joke.

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

Get an escort

Aim for women of low standards

Massage parlour

Get your teeth fixed/ straightened

I second this motion (only if all else fails in the next 5-6 months of trying properly). The only thing I would add is to *go hard in the gym to improve your physique because you @Son_Of_God DO NOT have a good body image of yourself otherwise you'd be more confident.

There's no way on God's green Earth if you had body like an athlete that you wouldn't have the superficial confidence to at least approach them.

Maybe wear more expensive deodorant with better notes. Women don't like men who smell like bug spray I would assume.

Change your wardrobe (for the better). Buy an off the rack suit for your workplace or just the trousers and get that shyt tailored for your body shape.

At least this way you'll look approachable.



If you still can't talk to women, I think you have some soul searching to do and face your reality of who you are.

 

[Prince Mongo]

my advice is that some ppl simply aren't meant for certain things (some aren't meant for single life, some aren't meant for marriage, some aren't meant for kids and some aren't even meant for sex)

don't try to force yourself to be something you're not and just continue to live ur life

accept who you are (a nikka that will never get any buns) and stop trying to be someone else.

because if u were the bun getting type you would have gotten it already

Bro, you're one of the lamest nikkas on this site. Folks don't even talk like this or care that much about another nikka's dikk irl. "Bun getting type" wtf is you talking about? Who says shyt like that?

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Go Tinder and go see another therapist

Physical abuse breaks people in sneaky ways sometimes, I saw it from my own eyes. It affects how people move and their personality when if it didn't happen they would be way more assertive/have more drive/be simply different etc

How would you describe your personality?


But for real go Tinder. You'll eat if you're not ugly and do it enough.

 

[Prince Mongo]

You might as well hang it up and become a tranny.

bytches do not care like that at all. nikkas would call you a fakkit irl for saying that shyt. You have to be a white boy from tbe suburbs

 

[BornReady]

You got to get uncomfortable. Make the effort to start a chat with a new female a day. Doesn't have to be a long conversation, something simple like a compliment. It'll get easier over time, and you'll eventually start getting numbers and dates.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Go Tinder and go see another therapist

Physical abuse breaks people in sneaky ways sometimes, I saw it from my own eyes. It affects how people move and their personality when if it didn't happen they would be way more assertive/have more drive/be simply different etc

How would you describe your personality?


But for real go Tinder. You'll eat if you're not ugly and do it enough.

Yelp, childhood abuse can have life long an impact

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Why you say that?

BW are the most height struck women as someone else in here said, also you’re introverted which is a turn off to most BW

 

[Child_Of_God]

Go Tinder and go see another therapist

Physical abuse breaks people in sneaky ways sometimes, I saw it from my own eyes. It affects how people move and their personality when if it didn't happen they would be way more assertive/have more drive/be simply different etc

How would you describe your personality?


But for real go Tinder. You'll eat if you're not ugly and do it enough.

I will. And yeah, I’m still a little fukked up from the abuse even though it happen years ago and I no longer talk or see them anymore.

People described me as funny, calm and nice. Honestly I’m not really the talkative, charismatic and outgoing type of person. I’m not the type of guy people are instantly drawn too. It takes a while for me to warm up to strangers because I have trust issues.

 

[Prince Mongo]

BW are the most height struck women as someone else in here said, also you’re introverted which is a turn off to most BW

No tf they aren't. Homie, where tf do you live? bytches don't shyt on my 5'8" ass, and I live in one of the blackest cities in America