I’m 25 year old and still a Virgin. I could use some some advice. UPDATE: I finally lost my v card

[AllHolosEve]

Breh you got no excuses. My nephew is your height, goes to the gym sometimes, mostly to hoop with family. Has a job, does his thing. Doesn't be out clubbing.

Only reason he don't get more p*ssy is his religious beliefs. Confidence is your problem, stop trying to impress these chicks. Just do you and be comfortable around these chicks. I get them without trying cause I just be myself and don't give a fukk what they do.

Or if being yourself is too lame, buy it like brehs said. You worked for that money, spend it on what you want to, fukk what people say about it. I support prostitution

 

[Turk]

nikkas really talking about paying for p*ssy to lose their virginity in here? What kind of loser ass mentality?

 

[-deleted-]

she better be a virgin also , most chicks will notice

I used to think so too, but most chicks won’t notice a damn thing and aren’t as smart as we’d like to think. All any virgin has to do is act like he’s not a virgin before sex and most girls won’t even blink twice. Worked for me when I was 19

 

[Roid Jones]

First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height “I’m 5’5’’ by the way.” I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?

No amount of 'game' will help you fix the underlying issue of your lack of confidence. You have to get to grips with that first before you even think of getting any woman

 

[The Burger King]

OP your best bet is really just to shoot your shot as much as possible. Think about it, you’re not getting anything now so if she says “no” it won’t make things worse.

 

[AllHolosEve]

I used to think so too, but most chicks won’t notice a damn thing and aren’t as smart as we’d like to think. All any virgin has to do is act like he’s not a virgin before sex and most girls won’t even blink twice. Worked for me when I was 19

Real talk. I told my first at 14 I was a virgin, she wasn't. She called me a liar cause I was too good to be a virgin. Porn came through for me.

 

[MrWestGrand]

nikkas really talking about paying for p*ssy to lose their virginity in here? What kind of loser ass mentality?

We live in the real world breh, if your in your mid to late 20’s, still a virgin, and don’t know how to sexually attract a woman, then money is the ultimate cheat code. That’s like asking why do celebrities and athletes fukk with popular ig models and break bread or other celebritiy chics, instead of knocking down the fine bytch that served them a Big Mack from the Mickey D’s drive through. Prestige and Confidence...

 

[The Burger King]

We live in the real world breh, if your in your mid to late 20’s, still a virgin, and don’t know how to sexually attract a woman, then money is the ultimate cheat code. That’s like asking why do celebrities and athletes fukk with popular ig models and break bread or other celebritiy chics, instead of knocking down the fine bytch that served them a Big Mack inthe Mickey D’s drive through. Prestige and Confidence...

Pull up nikka.

 

[Child_Of_God]

OP your best bet is really just to shoot your shot as much as possible. Think about it, you’re not getting anything now so if she says “no” it won’t make things worse.

Thanks man.

 

[Piri Tomas]

I tried online dating a few times and I have manange to message a few women back and forth but the conversation usually dies down and then I never hear from them again. I will give it another shot though.

You have to be aggressive enough to ask for a number, escalate shyt so they know you're for real about meeting in person. Women are mostly conditioned to have men make the first move. And keep at it. Talk to a number of women on those sites. Don't limit yourself.

 

[-deleted-]

Real talk. I told my first at 14 I was a virgin, she wasn't. She called me a liar cause I was too good to be a virgin. Porn came through for me.

Same. Never told my first I was a virgin, she just thought it was bomb ass sex. As men I can understand the nervousness of sex first time - hell, I still get nervous with new bodies for the first time. But the trick is to not let virginity pressure you. It’s just a harmless label, like your age or height, and can change over night.

 

[AllHolosEve]

nikkas really talking about paying for p*ssy to lose their virginity in here? What kind of loser ass mentality?

Breh he worked for his money, fukk you trying to tell him what to spend it on for? Brehs out here wasting money on bullshyt all day. If he wanna buy some p*ssy instead of materialistic shyt that's his money. That ain't no loser shyt, he getting what he paid for, no wasting time dating and all that extra shyt.

 

[Cynic]

I don’t want to pay for sex. I want a women to like me for me, not because I paid her.

Women only like men for what they can do... make them laugh/feel good/buy them free meals/raise their social status/provide them with good baby genes etc...

This whole like me for me is just ego ... Let it go

 

[horizon]

Pay for it.

Hear it's going for $23 these days

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?

Bruh, you really need a good, close knit male social group. Try to find some friends that have similar interests as well as being well-rounded. Just get your social life together first as that can be the jump start you need to gain confidence through their support and encouragement of you. Eventually you’ll get invited to other gatherings that could lead to you meeting decent women in the same circle. Y'all can hit a bar after work and chill and talk about girls and you’ll get advice on how to approach them. Shyt, get drunk with them and let that liquid courage work for you. Good luck...