I’m 25 year old and still a Virgin. I could use some some advice. UPDATE: I finally lost my v card

[Freedman]

Pay for it.

I second this motion

 

[Child_Of_God]

go get professional help for the depression could stem from that abuse you mentioned . thecoli is not the place for that kind of advice (the internet as a whole i guess unless its a specified forum for that)

as for the ladies try to find people into the same things as you. look for singles events in your town or something to get started at local bars once you get a bit more confident

you'll be alright breh

I have been to therapy for it but lately I stop going because I felt it wasn’t leading me anywhere.

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

 

[How Sway?]

I'm paying $23 for box tomorrow AMA

The thread that was right below this very one. Might need to hit it up op

 

[SAINT]

Go get you a white woman

 

[Dad]

GOT DAMN!!!!!

can you nikkas just think for yourselves when it comes to fukking women... stop asking other nikkas especially online about female advice, shyt

Why you so hurt about it??

 

[Dad]

You wanna get quick subpar p*ssy or do you wanna fukk with someone you have a connection with?

 

[Child_Of_God]

Go get you a white woman

I only like black girls tbh.

 

[the cac mamba]

I don’t want to pay for sex. I want a women to like me for me, not because I paid her.

yeah, but you're 25. at some point you might have to bite the bullet

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

First and foremost, I think you may have deep seeded issues as a result of your upbringing. We can't help you with that. You may need to talk to a therapist about the abuse you went through as a child OP. That probably has a big impact on your low self esteem and that doesn't just affect your relationships with women but everybody else as well. You say you only have a few friends and never go out. You're young, you should be going out and having fun.

In regards to this thread about your thoughts on approaching women, watch this video. Email me if you need anymore help breh.

 

[froggle]

First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height “I’m 5’5’’ by the way.” I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?

Height shouldn't be a problem, once your game and money is up. I suggest working from the bottom up.4s and fat women

 

[ORDER_66]

Don't pay for it!!! Don't you EVER pay for it.

Are you ugly???

Short, tall, Fat ,Skinny...

Why you not going outside, shooting your shot....

 

[Child_Of_God]

You wanna get quick subpar p*ssy or do you wanna fukk with someone you have a connection with?

It doesn’t matter with me at this point. But I would rather not have to pay for it.

 

[Payroll]

I don’t want to pay for sex. I want a women to like me for me, not because I paid her.

Pay for it.

Or improve your social skills.

No women is gonna love you for you. It's about what you can do for them. And if you carry yourself meek and broken down, that's blood in the water.

 

[How Sway?]

I only like black girls tbh.

Real talk A lot of fine/ above avg bw are height queens man. Not all, but compared to other ethnicities they are.

At the same time though, I've seen short brehs pushing strollers and walking with kids so you still have a chance...and with your situation in mind you can't be picky

 

[SAINT]

I only like black girls tbh.

nikka do you want p*ssy or not? You not allowed to have prefrences right now. women like confident dudes, they can sense the weak from a mile away. Go get you one of those short hair, Bon iver listening white broads they easy. Once you get your confidence up then you can join the big leagues